If u r pregnant & want to commit suicide, when shall you do it? day or night? kids go to bed? u be alone?

Question

just a study

Answer 1

I realize you are just doing a study, but I'm going to answer like you are asking for someone.

If a person is really having these thoughts, they really need to contact their physician or a help line.

If you are really going to go through with it, for the children's sake, have them spend the night somewhere else so they aren't the ones who find you! And yes be alone.

Answer 2

This is a shocking question to say the least. To commit suicide is the cowards way out. Nothing in this world could be so bad as to even think such an act would help any situation. You would only be hurting the survivors of your suicide. This would make an impact on their lives for ever. Children of a parent who have commit suicide often blame themselves for loosing a parent. And last, but most importantly is the unborn child. Unborn children are defenseless against such an act. To take a life before it is born is the worst sin ever imaginable... Please get some professional help from your Medical Doctor or a Clergy.

Answer 3

First of all if anyone would actually want to commit suicide then they would just do it. They wouldn't actually plan it out like a vacation, If they were that depressed. Second Why would anyone commit suicide if they were pregnant? If it is because of the pregnancy then there are alternative options to suicide. There is a thing called adoption or if worse comes to worse abortion. But, even that is just as bad as suicide in my opinion. Second, If you were to plan it out I'm Sure that you wouldn't want your kids to see something like that and be really scarred fro the rest of there life. Not only will then have issues because their mother committed suicide, but, she did it while they were present. There is a lot to think about. But, if there is already kids in the picture let this one that you are carrying have a chance. Talk to someone....

Answer 4

Suicide is not a crime, it's not a mortal sin, but it is, however, a cheap and fast escape from your problems used by cowards who don't have the slightest guts of facing said problems... I know, I've been through that phase in life.

So basically, a person shouldn't commit suicide but instead step up to the plate. Especially if that person's pregnant. Committing suicide at that point would make you the most selfish person in the world, by only thinking about yourself and not the child.

Answer 5

FYI ..... I dated a man whose father committed suicide and he never got over it. It is a horrible thing to do to your loved ones. He told me that once the police tape comes down , the body is removed and the scene is cleared it is then left up to the family to clean up the mess. There is no one whose job it is to come clean up all the blood. Even if it is bloodless , your family has to live everyday with what you have done. Even if you leave a letter trying to reassure them it wasn't their fault , they go every day thinking they should have done something and that you didn't love them enough to want to stay with them.
I knew another guy whose brother committed suicide and he told me he hated his brother for what he did to their family. He said it was the most selfish thing he could have done and his parents marriage was unable to make it after wards.
A woman at my church had a son who committed suicide 20 years ago and she goes to mass every day just to pray for his soul. It changed who she was and it took away the joy from her life.
People considering suicide are obviously mentally ill and need to seek help. I have been there myself on more than one occasion and knowing what I would do to my kids stopped me and made me get help. I told myself " I know I feel like I am worthless and a horrible mother , but I am the only mother they have." I realized I needed to do something to make myself better so that I could be the mother they deserved. For a long time I couldn't see the light at the end of the depression tunnel but one day I did and I am so thankful I stuck it out.

Answer 6

I don't believe you want to kill yourself but I believe you are in a very serious and unwanted condition. You need to talk with someone who can help you make sense of all that is going on and realize there are alternatives to suicide-no matter how you got pregnant. I'm sure there are children who need you very much and wouldn't care if you had another child as long as they got to keep you. Remember that it only matters if God forgives your sins-humans are very judgmental especially when they feel hurt. Love can and will conquer all!

Answer 7

why on earth would you want to commit suicide when you are carrying another life inside you? If this is something you are thinking about, you should get help. Besides you are making a choice for the living soul inside you that cant make the choice itself. and thats not fair. And if you already have children, think of how theyre going to feel to know that mommy didnt want to be with them anymore. Or to have one or more of your child(ren) find what is left of you. Imagine the trauma they will live with for the rest of theyre life. Go get help!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Suicide is a permanent non-solution for temporary problems.
See a psychologist now!

Answer 9

if u commit suicide u might have to live your life over agin

Answer 10

LOOK I SAY U SHOULDN'T DO IT. U BROUGHT A LIFE INTO THE WORLD AND U SHOULD BE WOMAN ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF IT. THAT BABY WOULD THANK U LATTER. SO DON'T COMITT SUICIDE. NOTHING IS THAT BAD TO KILL U AND YOUR BABY OVER.