Ok, this is raelly weird, my bud suffered from delayed puberty, and for some reason, never got the talk, and his parents assume he doesn't even like girls! Is this insane or what?! What should he do? plz, no dumb answers...
2006-07-01 02:58:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He is about right for his age now, though alittle short.
2006-07-01 03:04:06 · update #1
He already knows all the info from the talk from his own research. Why do parents assume he doesn't like girls, and why the ****doesn't he tell them? Maybe this should be in psychology instead...
2006-07-01 03:06:44 · update #2
His mother is Very protective, and wouldn't let him go out with girls, even IF he could get a date.
2006-07-01 03:33:38 · update #3
no, "Ilove sk8ers", he is neither bisexual or like bisexual. And it's not that he doesn't have an interest in girls, my point is that his parents fail to acnoledge any interest on his part.
2006-07-01 11:49:35 · update #4
In otherwords, his parents would be schocked to hear him say "Whoa, she's hot!" or, "Look at her legs." to a friend or around them.
2006-07-01 11:50:58 · update #5
ummm, renej, I'm not sure I understand what you said...some punctuation might help...
2006-07-08 02:45:13 · update #6
I wouldn't worry about it. People progress at their own rate when it comes to relationships. I'm sure your friend is not bisexual or like bisexual, after all, you are a homophobe. Remember answering that question. Why do more heterosexual have HIV/AIDS and yet uninformed, ignorant people like you make such statements when you know nothing of the truth. Your friend could easily be bi or gay and you not know it. I hid my sexuality all through middle and high school. Your friend could be because you homophobes only see what you want to see instead of seeking what is real.
Good luck to your friend. As for you, pray that you receive enlightenment through truth.
Terry
2006-07-01 17:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
His parents knowledge and/or cooperation are not necessary for your friend's success with women. If he's intelligent he can educate himself about sex very easily. Once he understands about the birds and bees, he should masturbate and get an idea of how his own body works before approaching girls.
Early contact should be just for the purpose of getting comfortable around women. He needs to learn to flirt and tease and just make friends easily with girls. Later he'll want more but take things one step at a time.
2006-07-01 10:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by rajjpuut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AND EXACTLY HOW OLD IS THIS FRIEND? SON, JUST GO WITH YOUR FEELINGS. BE RESPECTFUL TO AND INFRONT OF YOUR PARENTS BUT IF YOU ARE NOT GAY DON'T ACT GAY IN FRONT OF MOTHERS. IF YOU ARE, YOU ARE. I HAVE A FRIEND. SHE HAS SHELTERED HER CHILDREN FOR YEARS NOW AND ONE ACTS GAYISH AND THE OTHER ONE DOESN'T REALLY. I AGREE, I THINK IF SHE HEARD HER OLDEST SON START TALKING ABOUT A GIRL IN A CERTAIN WAY, HER TEETH MIGHT FALL OUT. SHE HAS JUST SHELTERED THEM, ONE ACTS WITH LACY PANTIES AND AS MY HUSBAND SAYS, ONE WILL PROBABLY END UP ON DRUGS. SON YOU JUST GO WITH YOU MALE INTUITION. BUT BE SAFE AND RESPECTFUL
2006-07-07 23:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to ask his parents. If he is too embarrassed to do that talk to a family friend, or someone older like a cousin, or uncle, aunt to tell him.
2006-07-01 10:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by cajunprincess97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey hes shy and doesn't want to talk to them yet my friend is 14 and still doesn't care about dating and stuff like that but i dun think he went throu delayed puberty anyways just give him his space he CAN'T be like that forever in highskool its hard not to talk to girls
2006-07-01 11:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Landon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just not a matuerd as other boys and maybe his parents are just imbrassed to talk about that kind of stuff to him he just just go and ask them.
2006-07-01 10:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by mayyah4life2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friend needs serious help, i she like bisexual?
2006-07-01 13:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by i_luv_sk8rs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋