can i believe him again and give another shot to him? he wants to get married to me.. he showed to me alot different himself to me after cheating.. but i still can't stop thinking of his flirting and cheating memories.. can i get it over it after i get married? or.. it is right to just break this relationship?
2006-07-01 01:18:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you feel like you need to then yes break it off and if it smells disaterous then why continue. boyfriends behaviors tend to reflect husband capibilities. things dont change once you get married if he cheats outside of marriage then your marriage to him will be nothing more then lock down in an unfaithful correctional facility. Trust your heart and let go im not saying ince a cheater always a cheater but the very fact that you ask this question shows its time to move on sweet heart. I love you. take care and be smart. I do care feel free to email me.
Justin
2006-07-01 01:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are hearing wedding bells. You need to think about it , before you walk down that aisle . Some people goes back to cheating, after they have done it once. Some stops after the first time. If you believe him, and still feel like that is love there. Then making the relationship stronger then it is now.
But if you keep rocking back and fourth. Between the feeling with him, then you need to get things straighten out. You have to look at this. If he was commit it to you and love you so darn much. Why did he go out and do the dirty with someone else.
Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. He can't have both ways. He didn't seem to have you in mind, when he put himself in the wrong place. Then again, everyone needs a second chance.
But remeber, you are not sure about it, don't get married, have a house load of kids, then find out he doing it again. It's going to be harder then , then it is now between you two. Plus you would have kids to fight over, plus divorce in your future.
There other guys out there.
2006-07-01 08:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they did it once it is likely they will do it again do what i did tell him if he wants to cheat bring her home for a 3 some
2006-07-01 09:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to introduce you to his parents if he is serious about marriage this is cut of line decision otherwise be ready of his another game. You will get his intension very clear after this and ask him to meet your parents if possible.
2006-07-01 08:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lost your trust and it will be awfully hard to regain it. If you are a very patient person you might wait, but by all means do not marry him until you do trust him.
2006-07-01 08:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is cheating on you now and your not even married ...he'll cheat on you anytime he wants...because he know your forgive him....you deserve better..you deserve someone that will respect you for who you are ...and want nobody but you, you are a good person don't let him work on your self esteem..
2006-07-01 12:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by ruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question girl are 'do you still love him? how much?'
because i you love him that deep it wouldn't matter if he cheated. you will accept him for who he is, all his good and bad traits.
but you know... if he cheated on you once, he can easily do it again and again and again..............
2006-07-01 08:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by seishinfuzen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant walk on and marry him to forget that hes acheater,if you want to marry him you should kick da thought of him cheatin',you should think of him as aguy who make astupid mistake and hes sorry for it and he loves you and wanna live happyly with you ...............lOL
2006-07-01 08:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the moron
2006-07-01 08:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋