someone tell me :)?

Question

I am feeling very depressed . I am not sure exactly why . Sometimes its cause i am feeling lonely . But i have everything , husband , family , friends and things that are more than enough for me . I have not cried so much in my life . The last time i cried , was when my grandmother passed away which was almost a decade ago and i scored well in my exams more than 5 yrs then . This year , it was cause , once hubby had to leave for business trip n he was going off for few days. I should be telling this to him or parents or best friends . My hubby did ask me , what was wrong with me , i told him i just felt sad suddenly and dont know why . I dont want to trouble my best friend and my parents are divorced.. i am not closed to any of them and i am the only child . After i have told my husband , he said he was sorry for being the source of this , i told him , its not and now hes going to talk less to me and it made me cry . Someone tell me what is my problem and I wish my hubby is here.

thank you all so much :) if there was anything i could repay , not just the word ' thank you ' . Let me know .

Answer 1

I don't know if this is accurate- you have to determine it. But it sounds like you don't have enough balance in your life. Too much is centered on your "hubby." Know who you are as an individual, know what you like, and find things you like to do. Besides being a wife, liking your hubby, and liking doing your hubby!!!! Seriously, your depression may be because your glass is too empty 'cuz you let hubby fill it up, when he's gone- Poof. Work on yourself, you may beat your depression and be a better partner for it. Good luck.

Answer 2

It is natural to become introverted when we feel sad or depressed. However, you shouldn't feel like you are bothering anyone because that is why we have friends and family. We support each other in good and bad times. And we all have weak moments especially with coping with day to day chores, stress from a job or classes and just dealing with life. It is natural and sometimes we all need a good cry to let it out. So call your friends , family and especially your hubby and let them know what is going on with you. Talking will also help root out the issue. And it doesn't hurt to get divine intervention. A prayer has always helped me get on track too. So don't be so hard on yourself and when hubby gets back- go away for a weekend and relax somewhere and have fun. Good luck.

Answer 3

My guess is that you are experiencing some depression. And please understand, it is more common than anyone would ever imagine. It is so common in fact, that you don't have to be ashamed of it and treatment is easy. Talk to your doctor. Let me repeat this, talk to your doctor. Some people, sadly enough, won't do this. If you have a deep cut, instead of being ashamed of it, you put a band-aid on it with a little bactine and you are good to go, fixed. Same with depression, just go get help.

My other suggestion is join a small group somewhere. If you are Christian, maybe a women's group within a church. If not, try a coffee group or a book club or a martial arts class. Just so you have a group of people on a regular basis that you can interact and talk with.

I wish you the very best. And seriously, don't blow it off, ask for help, its not that big of a deal to ask.

Answer 4

Reading your previous questions, I see that this has been going on for some months. You are, I think, unsure of what your relationship means and have noticed some odd behaviour from your husband.

I think, perhaps, you may have some questions in your mind that you are afraid to face up to. I think you need to find a very good friend or perhaps a counsellor who is a stranger and to whom it doesn't matter if you tell things to that you yourself don't want to believe.

Once you have got those worries into the open, you often see that there really is no basis for them, but acknowledging them is the first and hardest step.

Whatever happens, remember that you are a wonderful and special person and that you deserve the best you can give yourself. Try to accept yourself deeply and completely as that and the rest will be easier.

Answer 5

Hey, I think you just lonely! How about find yourself a girlfriend? Some time chat and shopping ( even window shopping) will do you wonders! husband is the husband, but have true friend it's a big need in life. Even to talk about your husbands, books, fashion, kids, movies, interior decorating everything......
We all go through this stage so you are not alone, good luck!

Answer 6

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Answer 7

dont worry...depression is natural but ur rite about it affecting ur husband in future...u have to be more optimistic...its ok to cry but u cant waste too much time on feeling down...i suggest you go play a sport or sumtin cuz exercise helps you feel better...also go out with your best friend to a movie or sumtin and spend more time with ur parents/family...surprisse your husbaand wen he cums back with sumtin to let him no u appreciate him...gud luck...ope evrytin gets better...life isnt worth wasting

Answer 8

You must talk to someone or the fellings are going to get stronger. Please talk to a docor and he might suggest you need a medication for depression. It is quite common disorder.
You also need to get out and excercise and eat healthy. This will help you feel better.

Answer 9

you may not be closed to them but you might not to close to them

Answer 10

YOU GET BOURD OF YOUR LIFE , WHY EVERY THINGS ARE THE SAME , AND YOU RIGHT ABOUT IT , YOU NEED SOME ONE NEW, OR GET USE TO IT .