white girl,pregnant for a black, asian, chinese guy and her parents have and are against them being together and would dis own the grandchild what would you do if it was your sister
2006-07-01 00:37:12 · 18 answers · asked by kojee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I would be delighted and pleased for both of them. They are having a baby!! That's wonderful!! Wish them well and back them up. Your parents have a lot to learn. Maybe your love for your sister and her family will rub off on them in the future.
2006-07-01 00:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by bobbi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what has colour got to do with it
the most important thing is the child should be bought up in a loving environment
by disowning the grandchild the child is losing out on having grandparents
do the people concerned love and care for each other i hope so and i hope they get the support they need from somewhere as it looks like the grandparents will offer no love and support i am glad not everyone has the same racist views as seem to be apparent in this family
2006-07-04 00:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by mumoftheyear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother is white british and my father is asian (pakistani), I never felt any prejudice toward my family when growing up and I'm grateful for a good understanding on two different cultures and two different religeons.
I understand that my father and mother got a little bit of flack from parents and family, but they got married and had me and my brother anyway.
My children are free to marry who ever they want, black, brown, white, green! As long as they are happy and their partner is a good person, then I will be happy too. I hope that I'm raising my children to see the diversity of peoples colour and religeon is the most exciting thing the world has to offer.
2006-07-02 02:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married to a black afrain man i have been with him for 6 yrs and married for two . colour does not matter it is what the person is on the inside that matters /if they love each other and care for each other they dont need to worry bout anyone else . i know that it is hard being mixed couple people say the horrible things ive had it all said to me even wit my mum two weeks befor i married him put know one thing this is your life and if he looks after you and treats you right dont let a good man go for anything i have two beautiful kids and they are my world and if i had to choose my husband and kids or my mum and family it will always be my husband and kids so i tell you tell you sister go with hr=er heart and dont let them get her down as i know that parents say bad things not see grandkids and all but there just words and when she has her baby they will all say sorry and will spent plenty of time wit them
2006-07-01 08:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and support her in any decision she makes.
I was there! My dad said the same thing, except I got married first. He said if I got married to a black guy, he (and his family) would disown me. I told him, that he is my dad and a Father Figure in my life, but he will not be the man in my life for the rest of my life. I have to go with what makes me happy and if who I choose, makes me happy then to be happy for me. He was at my wedding. And as for kids, He also said that he wasn't not prejudice but that it is not fare what the kids have to go through in school with being teased due to their color. I now have 6 children with the same man (who is wonderful to me), My children are very smart and popular and my dad loves all of his Grandchildren. Eventually parents come around. They sometimes say things to try to stay in control or they say things out of anger. Some parents come around before others. It just depends. Tell your sister to hang in there and not to do anything stupid t that innocent baby. Make decisions for herself and what makes HER happy. NOT everyone else and what would make them happy. Because none of those people have to deal with the consequences, repercussions, and guilt. Only she has to wake up to herself every morning and face the day............. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-01 01:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by mygirl46360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A baby is a baby... I hope that in future generations this will not even be a question that will be thought of as it shouldn't really be an issue.
2006-07-02 00:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were my sister I would give her all the support I could. There is nothing wrong with mixing races. Anyone who thinks there is something wrong with that needs to be beaten unmercifully. Tell your sister you love her and support her. Help her with anything she needs, even if it's just emotional support. (and I'm not speaking about sex before marriage being ok or anything like that. strictly speaking of mixing races, there is nothing wrong with that!)
2006-07-01 01:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Megan P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
colour is never an issue, or it shouldn't be, we are all humans, regardless of colour, we all bleed the same colour blood and we all have the same basic human needs, the colour of a person's skin should not make any difference at all.
2006-07-03 20:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps this is the full "interracial taboo" (or something like that) that provides a spark or something to the intercourse? via fact, confident, I extremely have heard white women say black men are greater proper in mattress, yet i've got additionally heard black women say white men are greater proper in mattress.
2016-11-01 01:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why seriosly people are free to make babies with whoever they choose and if they disown the child then they will miss out on a fantastic oppourtunity with a beautiful baby.
2006-07-01 01:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by linsy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋