i am in love with one guy he is very nice. but my cousion also loving me i said this matter to him he didnt feel any thing still he is loving me and asking me to marrie him i refused he told he wont marrie in the future what can i do now
2006-06-30 23:42:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You shouldn't marry your cousin because:
1) He's your cousin! Too close genetically. It's like incest.
2) You don't love him.
3) Even if the first two points didn't apply, the fact that he's using emotional extortion on you tells me he doesn't truly love you; he doesn't have *your* best interests at heart. People who use this tactic are generally very controlling. Let this serve as a warning to you about how he'd treat you later in life.
4) You can't be responsible for the actions he chooses to take now or in the future. If he doesn't marry anyone, that's HIS choice! It's not your responsibility.
Blessings to you. Be strong.
2006-06-30 23:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cousin and you is a no-no.. and then secondly if you are second guessing love- why not wait until your hormones settle down.. My advice is to stay clear of romance right now as your hormones are wacking you out and you might do somehting that you will be embarrsed about for the rest of your life.
Put ALL your energy into school- anything productiove that you may feel great gratification from and then just chill.
2006-06-30 23:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this stage in your life you need not worry about love and marriage. What you need to worry about is spelling and grammar. People judge you by your writing skills and it seems like you could use a lot of help in that department. There are English classes at every community college and night school in the country. My suggestion to you is that you throw yourself full force into one of these classes.
2006-07-07 09:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be loving your cousin anyway and as far as the other guy he needs to understand that he is not getting any love in return the way he wants it.
You need to find someone new.
2006-06-30 23:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you`re in love with the other guy well i have to tell you leave your cousin how can you marry him,i know that this happen but it is really an incest
2006-06-30 23:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by kejsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one.. HE'S YOUR COUSIN! Don't marry him, don't kiss him, just get the hell away from him. For two, if you love the other guy then be with the other guy.
2006-06-30 23:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Charles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not the way! that ur cousin is saying this.
u must ignore it, completely.either u must marry early or stay away from ur cousin.
things will improve like this only.
rest is ur wish.
2006-06-30 23:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by sapna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please,dont worry about your cousion.He will find another female to love.It's better to keep it out of the family.
2006-06-30 23:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and allow the things to settle...dont leave your cousing coz he will be loving you more.
2006-06-30 23:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by DoubtingThomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way you put that i would say no and its marry not marrie
2006-06-30 23:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by LoLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋