i have a boyfriend and when it was valentines day i got him a card and some chocolates but he did not get me any thing!!! i am not greedy but it really hurt to find out that he did not get me any thing!! now every time we have a little fight, when he tries to tell me he loves me sometimes i do not believe him. i love him so much and i do not want to dump him but sometimes things he does makes me love him a bit less. what should i do???
2006-06-30 23:26:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know how you feel
but...i have to tell myself too but loving a person and
showing your love to a person isnt the same.
he could love you giving you nothing, esepecially men
are not too concerned about this kinda stuff
i mean men are usually not into reassuring their love
so if you like to be reassured, you have to help him learn it
by letting him know that recieving a little gift especially on these
special occation like valentines day would make you so happy
and you feel loved
2006-06-30 23:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by happy-angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are into the 5 million little gift-giving holidays through the year. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I think you let it get blown way out of proportion, but you may be the type that needs a romantic, gift-giving guy. Sounds like you don't have that. You either need to accept that he's just not that type of guy, or make both of you more happy by finding someone that can provide that stuff for you.
Sounds like you're fighting a lot anyway, so it maybe for the best.
2006-06-30 23:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Derrrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can be lie that some time they jst r not the indulge in all the day like valentine day or kiss day etc the thing is a guy doent need a day to express his feelings and some guys r very shy when ask to express there feelings coz its not a guy thing to be all emotional all the time.
dont worry he is there with u and u love him dont let small things come in between the realtionship.
it u want it to work out just need to adjust a little u never no he may get u somthing out of a blue on any day.
2006-06-30 23:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pardon my conserving so, yet you're extremely insensitive and egocentric to ask this question. So even as issues get slightly demanding you bail?! guy, if i became that dude I wouldnt favor you round both. The dude lost his father only a month in the past! have you ever lost a verify? it isn't an consumer-friendly aspect to address. Do you imagine hes purely meant to cry for a couple of minutes in February then supply all of his interest to you? part of this boy has purely crumbled to airborne dirt and dirt and left his soul. that is per chance purely placing out to sink in. It takes a lengthy time period, sweetheart. per chance the desirable aspect for you to do is teach him what a heartless cretin you're and chop up with him so he can stumble on a human lady who has a human heart and a head finished of mind.
2016-11-30 02:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm and determined. Take a decision of your own mind, rather than taking others advice. You can only assess and decide on the assessment fully. Have a retospection of you both in your own convictions and arrive at a decision for implementation. All the best!
2006-06-30 23:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gal, its been a while since valentines day, so I'd say your still a little bitter at him for not getting you anything, and that doesn't make you greedy. you just gotta remember that guys are not perfect creatures and they forget things on occasion
2006-06-30 23:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do better. A real lover remembers dates and stuff. He might even remember your mother's birthday. Try this. Offer to drive him somewhere . When you guys get back to the car unlock his door for him before you unlock your side and open the door for him. Hopefully he says "Thanks sweetie." or something like that. But if he does not reach over to unlock your side then you might want to think about talking to him about your relationship and stuff.
2006-06-30 23:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not a very careing person, do you REALLY want to be with someone like that? Ask yourself if you are better off with him or with-out him...
2006-06-30 23:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just forget it, next valentines day dont give him his present until you get yours ahahaa
2006-06-30 23:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on if it were me.
If he doesn't even do small things for you where will he be when the big things come up?
2006-06-30 23:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by eg_ansel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋