we have been seeing each other for about 3 months and I just can't get him out of my mind. He has told me during and after sex that he loves me and he tells me if I don't want to have sex that it's okay we can just cuddle and he has cooked for me 2 times while he spent the night with me.He also told me that he wants to make me happy. But their is one thing that he does that I don't like if he sees a woman on TV that he thinks is hot he says so right in front of me. I can't help but wonder if he is a player.Oh and he said that Bi women are hot. What is that suppost to mean?
2006-06-30 22:22:15 · 4 answers · asked by Norma P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's been seeing you alot for about 3 mos that's good sign. Saying "I love you" dont mean crap. If he says stuff about women on tv he's prob. just seeing how possesive u r & seeing if you can hang with it, all guys want bi chic stuff. If he's worth the trouble you know that already, hang in there and good lovin'
2006-06-30 22:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by SLEEPY TECH 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relax, OK? Nothing wrong with his telling you Catherine Zeta Jones looks hot, given the chances of his actually meeting her are about the same as my correctly picking winning lottery numbers.
As for his bi-girl comment, could be he's voicing a suppressed sexual fantasy involving he, you and another woman. Again, no red flags of warning there; ask him if such is a fantasy of his. If it is, but you don't share his dream, then tell him. I think he'll understand and stick around for the long run.
Most women would pay the world's treasures to have a loyal man who exhibits such open communication skills as yours evidently does. I really don't see any danger of him cheating behind your back.
2006-06-30 22:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one...
what he means about Bi Women is not a problem now for U.
I think U are Into how he feels about U more for now.
one way to test anyones loyality...is to use another good looking Gal friend of Urs...(Someone he never seen at all)
Get Ur friend to talk friendly...to see if he is willing to start a relationship with ur friend.
Ur friend and U can not mention this to anyone...(even ur Dog)..
See if he would take the ride...
2006-06-30 22:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Khalid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. I would drop him.
2006-06-30 22:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋