ive been wif him for about 6 months.he's actually a very nice person, willing to sacrifice everything for me. I know in my heart that i hv a feeling for him but it's not a deep feeling for him. i know wat it feels like when u trully hold somebody in ur heart. but whenever im with him, i feel empty.this happens since the first time he said he love me. i tell him i love him, yet somehow it felt as if i'm just trying to make him feel loved. couldn't tell him cos im afraid dat it'll break his heart n affect his studies. i know that he's a fragile person. But as long as i carry on, it'll break my heart even more. and it will break his to when he know it after our relationship last for quite a time later.
2006-06-30 21:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just follow your heart hun!!!
2006-06-30 21:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by you. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell him now hun before it gets too out of hand and it hits him harder...just let him know u care for him but ur not "in love" with him... maybe ull be surprised and he'll take it better than u think... is a shame u dont understand ur feelings but it certainly isnt ur fault hun...love has a way of showing its true meaning, if its meant to be it will be and theres no point in forcing something that isnt gunna be good for ur emotion levels, if it hurts then its not love hun...simple... tc and do what u think is right...: )
2006-06-30 21:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are doing both of you an injustice by lying. You are going to hurt him, that is inevitable. But, waht is going to hurt him more, is the lying. He is going to have a hard time trusting any other woman he dates now. And you are hurting yourself b/c you are not happy. What its sounds like is you two have a good frinedship, but not mutual love for one another. End it now, before he gets even more hurt.
2006-06-30 21:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your relationship with him isnt going anywhere then you should break it off... i know it doesnt sound great, but its not idea to waste both of your time when you both could be out finding someone that you care about more. the longer you drag it out, the more it'll hurt later when you realize that this isnt gonna work out. do the best thing for both of your guys. break it off; stop lying to him; stop hurting both of you
2006-06-30 21:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2016-03-26 23:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i dont think u shud continue wd him ne more,ur betraying him and urself too..its better u make him aware of ut true feelings now,at this moment he can still survive but later on it wud be difficult for u as well as for him too.!!
juz let him knoe u like him and dont love him..
be a bit tactful honey!!!
2006-06-30 21:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by mastgal_rite_here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u better tell him the truth soon or u r going to hurt him so mush.but above all follow your heart.
2006-06-30 21:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by yoni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly... he's going to have to deal with it sooner or later. but in this case.. the sooner the better. so he can get on with his life/heartbreak whatever... and you can get on with yours. it'll also give you a chance to maybe find someone else out there who you could truly love, and vice-versa.
2006-06-30 21:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by digital321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to tell him how you feel no the longer you wait the harder it will be
2006-06-30 21:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some advice don't write so much
2006-06-30 21:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋