What about Neighbors?

Question

I have this neighbor that is always blaming my son for everything even when my kid is at his grandparents for the summer! He has a kid the same age who has parties whenever he goes out of town. The kids and his friends get drunk and cause chaos. I have never said a word. I finally told him to stop coming over and just leave me alone. My boyfriend thinks I should have not said anything. What do you thnk?

My neighbor told me he was going to build a fence and get a camera and I told him good, you'll find out it's your own kid and I'll have some peace finally. But, it really hurt me because I am a caring person, so I really just don't want him to come back to my house again.

Oh, yeah, the neighbors on the other side of him have 2 boys again the same age who are bullys and get drunk and cause havoc, too. all the other neighbors are scared, so they stay inside. So basically the boys who live in the two houses to my left run the neighborhood and their dad blames my kid constantly even if he is not home (with me somewhere or grandparents or at camp)

Answer 1

Neighbors are the worse. Go to the website "neighborsfromhell.com" and there is always someone there that has had this same issue and there are so many good ideas.
I had to use it last year. My neighbor was the worse, I finally stayed home and she moved.....think I should have done that years ago.
You should have said something. Never let them walk on you if you do that trend never stops.
Good luck with the website, they are really nice people and are great to vent with.

Answer 2

I think your boyfriend is a lily livered loser...telling you to not say anything is like letting neighbor walk all over you.I'd think about a surveillance system or some electrical device to catch the punk in the act.That'll give you more credibility when you finally have to call the cops,which doesn't seem too far off in the future.
Or find a bigger,badder punk and cook him dinner/flirt/show leg/etc. and let him do your bidding!

Answer 3

I think you are right for saying something to him. While you were at it I hope you told him your son is at his grandparents for the summer and that his rotten seed is the root of his problems.

Also put up a "no tresspassing" sign in your yard or on your house. That way if he comes over harrassing you again you can call the authorities and make a report and if he continues, you can take out a warrant for his arrest. (Personally, I'd threaten to knock his teeth down his throat!)

Answer 4

There is a famous saying "neighbours neighbour is your friend", invariably neighbours pick up quarrels unnecessarily for no reason. You may contact the family of the other side, you will get full support for all your pricks from your neighbour.Now both put together can sandwitch them.

Answer 5

You are on the right side!!! By staying silent, U have given ur neighbour enough opportunity to take control of the situation to his advantage!!! If he gets on ur nerves, burst him!!! Otherwise he will continue with it!!! If u havent done anything wrong, he has no right to speak to you in such a manner!!!

Answer 6

I hate all neighbors...even Jim Nabors. I'd like to live secluded somewhere.

Answer 7

My God!
I think u shd vediotape his son's parties, & show them 2 him, & tell him that if he complains of ur son once more, u'll call the police on him.

Answer 8

call the cops

on the kids parties

but also if your neighbor doesnt stop harassing you

Answer 9

Start kidding your neighbours any time they start blaming your kids.