im a sikh residing in india whereas my boyfriend is a muslim.. my parents have absolutely no problem over inter-religion relationships/marriage.. but i hav this idea tht they wud not like me 2 b married 2 my muslim BF. they say tht the hav very horrifyin practices against women evn tho they hav nevr mentioned it wot thy actually r.. i lov this guy.. hes frm a decent well educated family n hes doin very well too.. i dont want 2 miss this opportunity wth such a gr8 guy.. pls help..
2006-06-30 21:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by versatilefrost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no question about decency , but you know the basic difference is religion . Have you both ever discuss this points with your parents or among your self . Reason both you are brought up in a different style of living . In both of your back of the mind you both will miss some thing if you agree blindly , for the sake of living together . will repent and course , when will not be able to perform your some rituals , you are performing for the last , at least for 20+ yrs .
I think you both sit together with some of your close seniors relatives or parents and discuss this point , and then can go ahead . May ALMIGHTY HELP YOU BOTH
2006-06-30 21:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by your noon 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It may create problem for you culturally. For a Muslim by trapping a non-Muslim girl he is only performing a great religious act, so that after marriage you are converted to Islam and he is blessed by Allah to have abide by His command by getting an infidel converted to Islam. But he may later have another three like you as wives which is sanctioned in the Quran. At that stage you will not get any protection and you have to share your husband with three other women. Hence, look before you leap!
2006-07-01 04:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to know for sure is whether he has any intention of expecting or trying to force you to become Muslim. What do you know about his family and their feelings? The Muslim lifestyle is very much family related. What about future kids? How will they be raised? Simply said, don't go into this blinded by what you feel. There are serious questions that need answered by both of you. The fact you are asking here seems to indicate you're not sure yourself. Get your answers first.
2006-07-01 04:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your relationship based on religion or something else? I'm sure you could find enough sikh's that don't treat their wives well if you wanted. All I'm trying to say is that many many people get married for the absolute wrong reasons, regardless of religions persuation. If you want to be happy, make sure you're marrying him for all the right reasons.
2006-07-01 04:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should go for a Sikh Guy, I have heard they are great. Gotta find good one. I don't think your parents like your this Idea with Muslim !
2006-07-01 04:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Gilmore♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read up on his religion, talk to other women with husbands/boyfriends of that religion. That is probably going to be your best bet. There may be councelors in your community who know about this or you could find some information in a "religious establishment".
Best of luck.
2006-07-01 04:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by eharejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared, ask him how his religion would reflect onto your relationship. Any ways, it shouldn't matter religion if you are happy then go for it. Don't let others tell you what you should and shouldn't do. Its the same thing for race, it doesn't matter, but what matters is what the two want. If you're happy and you want to try, then go for it.
2006-07-01 04:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~Katie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both of you can deal with it and have come to the conclusion on how children will be raised then I wouldn't worry about what my parents thought as long as your happy go for it
2006-07-01 04:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its love, dont let nothing stp you.
2006-07-01 04:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-01 04:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by deva u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋