Not even thirty minutes ago I had sex for the second time in two days, with the same woman. She knows I'm dating my co-worker; she says she doesn't care. I've been dating my co-worker for the past few weeks now and this situation well, it's sorta getting kinda sticky. People have reported to my co-worker that I've been talking to this girl and that she's been coming by the office. Well, half of it's a lie and the other half I've owned up to. I haven't even kissed my co-worker yet; but I just kissed this other woman who I've only known for two days(nights). Look, I really want to be with my co-worker as a boyfriend, but I seem to be thinking with the wrong head! I want to be happy! Not miserable as the direction this situation is starting to lead. I know you can't have your cake and eat it to! Why am I in such turmoil? What do you think?
2006-06-30 20:33:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got to be nice to this co-worker. It's obvious that with the co-worker, you like her. You respect her in that you haven't kissed her yet but you think that because you're not "committed" yet to her, you can still sleep around. Drop the other women for good - she is your problem. She says she doesn't care that you're dating someone and that right there is a sign that she doesn't care for you, your feelings or your wants and desires (other than sex). Drop this girl, give the co-worker the chance she deserves. You both deserve the best and if you're not willing to be monogamous with the co-worker, let her know you're just not ready. Or, be a man Dammit! Hold out for the woman you really like and stop making excuses. Rent porn, do it in your own room, alone... you don't need that other chick. But again, if you're not willing to stop with her, you can kiss your chances goodbye with the co-worker.
Best of luck... I really hope you find your way.
2006-06-30 20:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by eharejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really asking? You already answered your question, you just wanted people to comment on what you did. Well as a man, I understand why you did what you did, If you really want your co-worker, then you have to suck it up and do what is necessary. I flater she seems cool with you having a "flexible" relationship then you can start fooling around. Always keep your eye on the ball.
2006-07-01 03:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by bzmag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical
2006-07-01 03:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u this, man. but u kinda gotta forget about the one ur humping and go ask ur coworker out at last!! sounds to me the other gal doesn't care about how u feel. she just wants sex. she probably just likes ur face or ur body or maybe shes just bored. either way she aint planing on being serious wicha, so leave her. make it crysal clear that u DON"T want her! then if she doesn't stop, tell the other girl that u don't want the sex-gal, but that she is "stalking" u. that way it won't be ur fault if ur seen talking to the other one.
best of luck man. i hope u manage to be happy! i really do!
2006-07-01 03:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by bukroot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the only situation.....is .....u will hate me for saying this no its not dieing...but i think u should go with my bestfriend........god cause hes helped me through all my situations and he still loves u wateva u do even if its murder as long as u repent then fine well have fun
2006-07-01 03:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by littlexXsisXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never sleep around where you work. I think everyone learns this one the hard way.
2006-07-01 03:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not have ur cake and eat it to at least till u can make up ur mine or u get caught which ever comes first.
2006-07-01 03:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by bigdog10210210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shoulddrop it with the other girl and if you really like your co-worker you would wait for her.
2006-07-01 03:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical Male Whore!!!!
2006-07-01 03:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop sleeping around and commit?
2006-07-01 03:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋