Ok, yesterday at night my mother wanted me to accompany her to a tea party but i don't like them, they are so girly, so i stayed home watching tv with my dad, and my dad always gives me a lot of money for shopping so when she returned she was really mad at me because all of her friends had brought their kids but herself, and she told me i only like hanging out with my father because of his money, my father keep staring at me and i was paralized for even realizing my own mother thinks that about me.
2006-06-30 20:16:36 · 31 answers · asked by girlygirl* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Truth: I ambit that sometimes it seems that in the family im the most that spends, but i work in a store and have an ice cream store and its really going well, but i still seem like a little girl asking for money. And i do hang out with my mom but i don't know is she was exaggerating when she told me.
2006-06-30 20:23:38 · update #1
since that incident we haven't talked a single word! and i don't know why because she always talks in breakfast, this time the whole house felt quite.
2006-06-30 21:10:13 · update #2
Your mom is hurt... You should apologize.
I'd use some of that money and take her to tea. She deserves at least that much.
Then you can have a heart to heart about the real issue.
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2006-07-15 02:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by bugzaper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't hurt to do something with your mom once in a while. Relationship and love always involves times of sacrifice. It would mean the world to her if you occasionallly did little things like this just for her even though there is no money involved. After all, you'll come to realize after having kid's of your own, it took a lot of sacrifice on your mother's part to bring you into this world and raise you.
2006-07-12 11:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...she is laying one heck of guilt trip on you...and now you feel real bad. What a bummer. You made a choice at the time; and now you are being punished for it. She should have let you know that it was that important to her...but quite frankly it sounds more like a "show and tell" to me to impress her friends...and those are the wrong reasons for her to want you there in the first place...and your dad is communicating to you, "Don't squeal on me" because he doesn't want to deal with it. At least you can console yourself with: She'll find something new to be upset about by this time next week; and the whole thing will blow over!
2006-07-14 22:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here we go 1st APOLIGIZE it doesn't matter whose wrong or right the person that apologizes first wins,
2. If you ice cream things doing well, use your own money as much as possible,
3. offer to go with her next time, and then DO IT, your parents have done a half a million things they didn't "feel" like doing for you, return some of the favor.
Good Luck and God Bless,
2006-07-13 03:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Old Wise One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u better make up with ur mom a mothers love is the best love u can get.i mean the reason u got mad at ur mom is because she told the truth and the truth hurts.and look it proably wouldnt hurt if u spent sometime with ur mother and that makes ur mom feel like damn my little girl doesnt like me cause i dont have the money like her dad.look home u need ur mother.and ur mother needs u.so take my advice and make up with ur mom cause u never know what will happen and if something does and u never apologized to ur mom u would regret that 4 the rest of ya life.
2006-07-15 01:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by ive_lost_my_m1nd_i_cant_find_it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book The Dance of Anger
also why not spend an afternoon with your mom, did you know it was a morhter/daughter thing??? if you did, shame on you.
And MOM......stop teaching your daughter to give the silent treatment.
Both hug each other and come out smiling.
2006-07-15 01:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you already said it, my dad gives me money...so, thats why you 'hang out'...
Your a girl of opportunity and you will suck as much out of the old man as you possibly can, and your Mother is tired of you mooching!
You cant do something "nice" for your Mom, every once in awhile, because your a spoiled brat! Get with the program dearie... Your Mother is losing patience with you and your conniving ways...
Show respect to the one whom bore you and put up with your runny snot nose and wiped your butt all those years, to get paid back by a slap in the face because your so blasted SELFISH!!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-14 03:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you really hurt your mom's feelings. Sure, maybe you don't care for tea parties, but that wasn't the point. It was obviously important to her that you do something with her. When your grown up, you find that going to a tea party that you don't want to attend is easy, compared to more difficult things that come up in life.
Next time, tuff it up, and consider her feelings also.
2006-07-13 22:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Your mom just wants you to spend some time with her. Is going to a "tea" such a "horrible" thing for you. Money is money. Time with your mother... is priceless. Please understand that you hurt your mother. Make it right. Take her to lunch with some of that money your dad gave you. You are lucky to have two parents who care about you. Show her you love her and care about her. Take her to lunch... and then order "tea".
2006-07-10 22:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by bebeshanibabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was that important to your mom that you go she should have expressed that and you should have gone. She did give birth to you and change you diapers and play silly little games with you when you where a baby. So you owe her a couple of hours at a girly tea party.
2006-07-01 03:23:15 · answer #11 · answered by firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋