lives with her ex-husband of 10 years, but he lives in a different part of the house (actually like a mother-in-law apartment). Would you think it odd and would it deter you from dating her? They live together out of convenience for their children they have together.
2006-06-30 20:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by Laney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
VERY VERY tough question... it will depend on the two people in the relationship... and the trust and confidence they have in each other...and a lot of adjustment ,tolerance andand understanding..but the key ingredient will be MUTUAL TRUST and everything else will depend on it
2006-06-30 20:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by nagi 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course is odd.
why you would ask, well simple for once we know that they have been together before as things go, we all know that once you been in bed with a women in the past the likely hood of having sex with that woman again is allot better specially if you live in the same house. How do I figure that well let's say that everyone is a while the female living in the house needs help or she feels sad the all the sudden they are having a good time and those good times build over time eventually they will end up having sex again of course no woman is going to admit ed but most guys with not want to be living with another woman in the same house because it would make it harder for him to get women. So it will always be in the back of the other man who the woman is dating that she is living with her ex.
2006-06-30 20:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by ybzcarlos1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she still lives with ex-husband, she wouldn't be my girlfriend.... too much drama there. That's a bad situation all around...trying to help out the kids is a noble thing to do, but I think it's going to turn into something that hurts them in the long run.... Go ahead and separate!
2006-06-30 20:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find it slightly odd at first, but, I think, after learning about the circumstances, I wouldn't let it deter me.
Of course, that would only be true if nothing happened between them at all in that 10 years.
2006-06-30 20:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the guy is...is he going to be jealous everytime I come over. Eventually he will have to go, or she will have to move out--I wouldnt be comfortable with it unless I knew for sure it was temporary. It really depends on the chemistry with the two people, I like to trust people easily, but Ive been burned too many times, so I am a bit more cautious.
2006-06-30 20:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. As long as their's an arrangement between the ex-partners, and it's sincere and mutual, I don't see any problems. Maybe you should ask yourself the question. Do you see it as a problem? It may seem awkward, but life is unique and strange. Not all problems are solved in a set-template, and societal mores be damned.
2006-06-30 20:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, yes it would. In my opinion it would seem like the two of them still had feelings for each other and I would question whether or not that girlfriend of mine truly wanted me and wasn't just taking a break from her husband.
2006-06-30 20:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red Flag. Sounds like someone's not ready to move on. Which way are the hills? Oh yeah, I'm running that direction.
2006-06-30 20:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would be wierd....And I've lost 2 gf because they cheated on me behind my back...And didn't tell me when i asked them. I won't get mad unless they told me, but thats a different story......If i were u, i would be a little bit suspisous and nervous. It all depends on thier loyaltity and if they're still hook on each other.....Just pray.
2006-06-30 20:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by LonelyPsycho...I Need A Hug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never go out with someone who has been married before or has children with someone else.
2006-06-30 20:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Whats it to ya? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋