k well i just broke up with someone i really loved, and then im going out with a new person. but later, my ex asks me out again. so i say yes, so now im going out with two girls at once, and it duzint feel right. i think i should dump my ex cuz im not sure if she really loves me as much as i love her, but on the other hand, i think i should dump my new gf because i dont know her as well, and shes not that kewl. (or out going) so what should i do?
2006-06-30 19:55:54 · 32 answers · asked by masterjedinite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep dating both of them... As long as you're not exclusive with someone, you're allowed to date anyone you want. Once you decide who you want, then commit to them..... that's how it works.
2006-06-30 20:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EASY SOLUTION!
Dump both of them (for extra fun, do it in a very dramatic way - ask them both out to dinner at the same restaurant at the same time, stand them both up, and have them meet, realise what's been going on, and get really angry. Then hope they don't plot to kill you.).
Then give up on dating for a while (say, 10 or 20 years).
With all your extra time, you can do everything you've always wanted! Get a second job, go back to (primary) school, see the world, join a football club, get in pub brawls, take up ping pong, be an extra in a movie... you know, that sort of (worthwhile!) thing!
2006-06-30 20:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by j d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who broke up with whom first coz if your the one who broke up with your ex gf it means there was a problem and you felt you need to broke up but if she is the one who broke up know whats her reason and why is she into you again. As for the new girl think why are you with her even you said shes not that cool. Do what feels right and do it fast before they know about each other
2006-06-30 20:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, be with the girl that you love and with whom you know loves you back in the same way. If you love your first GF but don't think she loves you back enough, it will hurt you to be with her and you wont' be happy. If your 2nd GF is not that kewl to you, then you won't be happy with her either becuase you will constantly wish she was kewler. So if neither girl is doing it for you, then don't be with either of them. Dont settle for less. If you let them both go, you might meet someone who does satisfy everything you want in a girl.
2006-06-30 20:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say dump them both. Now if you try to hold a relationship with either it will only hurt you in the end, because you feel guilty. Now just start fresh. You sound like you are hot enough to...I mean hey look at how all the women are throwing themselves at you!
Ellie ; )
2006-06-30 20:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your new gf isn't cool in your eyes then why are you with her??? You sound unsure of both girls. It sounds like you just need to be single and move on. Save yourself and both girls the time...cut off ties with both. Do you just not want to be alone? If that is the case, get over it.
2006-06-30 19:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't right. If you "love" her why would you dump her, to top it off why would you be "going out" with two girls. You should have broken up with the "new" girl first.
2006-06-30 19:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never said yes in the first place! but i think you should end it with the ex because you didn't give the new girl a chance.
2006-06-30 19:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people spend more time with the ones they love. Since you love your ex, but you're "not sure" if she loves you back then find out! Clear it up with your ex before moving on. If there's something there, you don't want to miss out on it because you weren't sure. And you don't want to move on to another relationship with emotional baggage.
2006-06-30 20:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the voice of experience.
Oh! here it is.
"You're not really in love with either of them. You'll learn more from the new girlfriend on your way to love. Keep her for a while and DON'T GO BACK."
2006-06-30 19:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit alone n think deep to whom you love and cant live without or the other way come to know who's first love is you because GIRL'S FIRST LOVE IS TRUE N GUY'S LAST LOVE IS TRUE...
2006-06-30 20:04:24 · answer #11 · answered by Pinky T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋