i like this guy at my work place, but he like this other girl who also works with us, and i think the girl likes him a little bit. the girl is actually a really sweet, pretty girl, she is like friend. the guy is just awesome, he fines, and really kind too. i don't know what to do cause i can't stand seeing them together like that... it sucks to c them together cause i really like the guy and the girl doesn't seem that interested... another guy at the work place asked me out though, but i still want the first guy...don't know what to do??
2006-06-30 19:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by kelis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when in doubt, do nothing
2006-06-30 19:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that guy likes her is because she is acting like she isn't that interested. She is playing hard to get. Don't act desperate, not saying you do, but that is a huge turnoff for guys (so I've heard). Play it cool, let him come to you. Talk to him, flirt with him but not too much. Act like your not interested, you'll see, he may come to you. If not, give the other guy a chance. The other guy may turn out to be "The one" while the first guy may have a small wang. Most good looking guys do (in my expierence :) ).
2006-07-01 02:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vandie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like junior high school. if a guy is taken he is taken.
Ask the girl...."is this a relationship you are in with him?" if she says 'no we are just friends" Then you might mention to her that you have a thing for him. Otherwise mind your own business.
You sound infatuated. Those feelings will come and go in your life time. Besides maybe guy you like might not be all that.
2006-07-01 02:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the 2nd guy dont accept...its not fair to lead him on if u like another guy...as for the first do whateva feels right for you, or if you really have no idea than leave it for a little while and the situation may change...
2006-07-01 02:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jewel~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think instead of asking anyother on u should talk to the first guy very clearly that u like him n wat does he think bout u. if he likes the another girl he will tell u. if this is so, then dont worry n try to forget him coz u cant get anybodys love forcefully. so its better to forget him. n if he likes u its the best for u.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-01 02:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by archi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out for any signals from that guy.
try to help him but dont go overboard.
ask the girl if she likes him.
and then chat with me.
and we can decide later what to do
2006-07-01 02:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by smart_chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to show him that you are interested in him. He will jump over you.
2006-07-01 02:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart but also don mix ur work place n pleasures...
2006-07-01 02:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rushil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mix work with pleasure. unless your married and own your own business!
2006-07-01 02:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by SHE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your gut
2006-07-01 02:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by J's On My Feet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋