My 2year old son drives me crazy is their hope for me will this ever end? What should I do? Can you help ? He's always behine me in what ever I'm doing how can I break this from him?
2006-06-30 19:10:32 · 31 answers · asked by HONEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ilove my son I think I need time to keep it together just a few min.
2006-06-30 19:20:22 · update #1
well i've had 3 of my own and it is a phase that they go through. i learned that if you be more of a friend than a mother, do things with them as; when you do something get him involved in similar things but at a greater distant, being a mom is not easy. it's hard. if you need some one to talk to i'm open. i'm 27 with a 10, 8 and soon 4yr old.
2006-06-30 19:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by furthufukuvit 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Same here my 2 yr old son doesn't always follow me around he drives me a lil crazy from time to time but that's kinda what they r suppose to do at this age. I just listen to what my mom says, and thats to cherish the time u spend with him. Now if he just won't get a away from u then pop Chicken Little in the dvd player give him a little candy maybe some popcorn some juice of course. then wah lah!! problem solved.
2006-06-30 19:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, The thing is your the most important person to him at this time.... If you just let yourself remember that he is not always gonna be this way, I thought I would die as my children did the same, They could not even sleep without me. Now they are 12 an 8 and I hardly hear a word form them or even see them they are to busy doing their own thing... this start at age 3 or 4 where they wonder off to do their own thing, I only wish now that I could have them back to clinging on me lol.It will go by faster then you will want it someday, and that is when you will miss this.. so enjoy it and love it as it will not be there always and forever.
2006-06-30 19:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your going through is called BEING A MOM!.. terrible two's do eventually fade.. but your a mom and the constant need for a break is something u better get use to.. try finding a family member or friend that can watch him for a couple hours a week to give you a break.. and i hope you found new respect for your mother because trust me, u were the same to her that he is to you.. lol..
2006-06-30 19:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie, its hard to have some one chasing you around so you need to turn around- sit on the floor and play, what ever you two like cars got your nose sing a song if hes doing something fun with you hell be happy, when hes sleeping then you can run around the house remember 3 to 4 min on one thing is for ever for him. If your cleaning- give him a rag
if your getting dressed- give him a shirt to put on
it only takes one second to make them smile .
2006-06-30 19:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Where else does he have to go? They are completely dependant on you. You need to readjust your point of view to love this child and this time you have. Some day he will be grown up and you won't be able to get enough time with him. Maybe you need a break now and then to just be an adult? Then after a break he won't seem so annoying.
2006-06-30 19:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, He is just curious about the things you do. I would get him something for him to do while your doing what you have too. what does he like to do, Is there a cartoon, or a yard he can go into or his room? set something up special for him and set limits and he will too do his own thing. Like if your doing dishes, give him a pan to play with. What I have found that helps here, I have allot of children around. the only time it seems I get any peice is when there napping. that is when I do the things I have to do. or I will find his grandparents ect to watch him for a couple of hrs to have some time to me.
2006-06-30 19:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by six_blueangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a 14 month old son and yours can not be as bad mine is. so now what i think you should do is find a babysitter to watch him and you get out the house and have some fun. that way he wont have to see you a whole lot and he can stop driving you crazy. I'm not saying abandon your child its just that when you get out the house he'll stop bugging you.
2006-06-30 19:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by sheilavncnt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him something to do that will really occupy him so you can get some free time - toys, play-pen, try putting in a kid's cartoon or sing-along, etc. Becareful how you give into his demands; you have to be firm yet loving. Kids will take advantage of you if they even sense that you're not consistent or serious about what you're telling them. This is a critical time as his environment is shaping who he will become.
2006-06-30 19:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by bashyt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called terrible 2's but they aren't bad. Find something he likes to do, like coloring at the table. Rest and meditate when he is taking a nap. Patience,most 2 yr olds go through this. Give him lots of hugs and kisses. It will pass.
2006-06-30 19:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋