I tend to get carried away with things, and I end up calling my boyfriends too much, and talking too much, and I'm afraid I'm seen as clingy. How do I stop myself?
2006-06-30 18:54:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow... I just realized I messed up when I typed that question... I'm so tireddddddddd.
2006-06-30 19:00:02 · update #1
How 'bout a little advice from a guy who's been through this from both sides of the fence. First of all it's something you'll do naturally and it's really difficult to control yourself especially when the other person does the same thing. The problem is that one of you changes before the other one does and they get annoyed by it. If you try to avoid it, they'll get mad cause you don't call enough. I think the only way to prevent this from becoming a problem is to have your own life and do stuff all the time and make that a habit. When the new guy comes along (hopefully he will soon) you need to keep doing that stuff and seeing him and calling him on the off time. Just stay busy and do things you really like to do, and it will happen naturally. But for people like us, it takes practice. (Besides, I wouldn't expect you not to be clingy after your recent new experience ;) it was special right?)
bye =)
2006-07-02 16:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats how i get too...
I find that it works best if I stay busy.. anything just to keep me off my cell phone or computer sending him emails or whatever.
When you feel the need to call him call a girlfriend. If you want to go see him.. go shopping or something.. you can think about him all you want .. but if you are worried about being to clingy then you prob are.... thats what ive found with me.
2006-07-01 01:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM THE EXACT SAME WAY!!!!! i cant help it! i just want to be with him all the time and talk to him! i try to keep busy by taking up a new hobby or spending more time with my friends! and a few times he's gotten mad at me for calling so much. what i realized is that i need to control myself and not call as much because i dont want to make him upset
2006-07-01 01:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your insurities that make you want to call them more then being clingy. your afraid of rejection so you make the calls. try to build up your self esteem more and you will be able to handle the situtations much easier.
2006-07-01 02:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop being clingy simple
2006-07-01 02:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever you have the impulse to call him just find something else to do, at least for a while.
2006-07-01 02:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by *~Squeekimz~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep major busy
2006-07-01 01:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Regine g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋