what makes a man hit on a woman and vice versa?

Question

i appreciate all the answers about abuse but, i am curious as to what makes people make advances toward another...

"hit on" not "hit"

Answer 1

The reasons are as vast as your imagination. Every thing from the shallow, superficial reasons of just pure physical attractiveness, to just wanting a one night stand to wanting what they have, money, influence, power, to hopefully the more noble of reasons of being attracted to the person for true intentions of love and a lasting relationship based on mutual respect, adoration, and compatibility in mind, body and spirit. The trick is to uncovering the real motivations and intentions of the person,,,,,,

Answer 2

The reason why a man would hit on a women is because he's a punk ***** that's too scared to hit a man. Women hit on men because they're too emotional to hold in their anger so they think it's ok and they are shocked when they get hit back like they deserve.

Oh you meant flirt with eachother. I guess physical attraction.

Answer 3

A man who hits a woman needs to hit me a real man dose not hit a woman I don't like to fight that is for cats and dogs not people If he hit you leave his ***!!!

Answer 4

Boredom

Answer 5

Some women deserve to be hit by their man. Just as some men deserve to be hit by their women. I have seen some women who have been hit by their man and they totaly deserved it and brought it all on themselves.

Answer 6

mm... everyone is different.. every has different wants.. but the best is i think.. to be a GOOD MAN .. deep inside... i mean pure heart.. and everything will follow.. but when it comes to physical appearance... its the looks that matters.. coz we dont want to have someone we dont like even in the first look right.. (nauhty).. ok.. just visit http://pannga.com .. some some advices.. goodluck!!!

Answer 7

maybe the man is really sadistic otherwise how can a man hit a woman or viceversa. there is devil in there mind that makes them do that.

Answer 8

i think they loose control of the situation and go over board and forget what is going on and they hit. i think sometimes they want to feel like they have control and the only way to stay in control is to hit her/him.they feel like they are loosing control and need to put their spouse in their place. they are insecure and need help.

Answer 9

This is a question many women ask themselves when they find themselves in a physically abusive relationship. The answer to this is an unequivocal 'nothing'.

Many men who are abusive to their partners play the game of “Look what you made me do”, thereby absolving themselves from responsibility for their actions.

“Women get to accept these unhealthy behaviours as normal and begin to believe that they are the cause of their being beaten, as they are so often told. The man blames his partner for his behaviour, thereby absolving himself from any duty to change or accept responsibility for what he is doing,” according to Niel Henderson, Educational Co-ordinator of Nicro’s Project for Abused Women in Cape Town.

Our society is patriarchal and women often see themselves as trapped and powerless, says Henderson, “An abuser is often extremely charming and persuasive to outsiders, making it even more difficult for a woman to be believed when she complains about abuse – especially emotional abuse”, he says.

“An abuser usually has a tendency to do two things: firstly to isolate his partner from her friends, family and colleagues and secondly to destroy her belief in herself, thereby rendering her helpless in her own eyes,” he adds.

“Many women sustain serious injuries, some leaving them permanently scarred, injured or dead, but the psychological damage is immeasurable on the survivors of domestic violence.”

“Violence against women is the world’s most pervasive form of human rights violation”, according to a report released by the World Health Organisation (WHO) in 1997. It carries on to say that gender-based violence represents a substantial health burden for women and that it is endemic in most societies.

Sadly, studies done in South Africa show that South African women are by no means exempt from this scourge:

1 in every 4 women are assaulted by their husbands/boyfriends every week (People opposed to Women Abuse – POWA)
The average woman stays in an abusive relationship for 10,5 years before leaving (Rape Crisis)
59 percent of murder cases at the Wynberg Magistrate’s Court involved men accused of killing their wives (NICRO)
A woman suffers being battered an average of 39 times before she eventually seeks outside help (Burman, Katz and Partners, Port Elizabeth. Paper: Prevention of Family Violence Act 1994)

Answer 10

if she got a lover or he cheating