I am just a simple girl, unsophsticated, and black. He is white, a gentleman and professional. We only meet during monthly meetings and communicate via emails on relevant issues only. meanwhile, ive been thinking about him a lot but dont even know if he''s married, attáched or is himself ever dreamt of someon as me. I am shy and h appears to be gentle and caring.
How do i get closer and to know him better and how can i tell if he has 'observed my moves. I don't want to appear stupid.
Matured counselors please.
2006-06-30 18:36:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Arrange a group get together at a local bar or restaurant. That way you will get to know him away from work and is he says he has to leave early to get home to the wife and kids or something you will know. If he stays out you will get the chance to chat to him and get to know him more. Hope this helps. Good luck x
2006-06-30 19:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try casual conversations at first....is his wife or girlfriend part of this monthly meetings....what does he enjoy about it...then when he responds, you can get the conversation further in other topics...but be friendly and not flirty......very few people turns down a potential friend.....and when he's being friendly to you too and been communicating with you for a while....its time to get a little side-tracked to the love lane....
2006-07-01 05:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by psalm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull him into the women's toilet at the monthly meeting venue, push him into a cubicle, strip naked and discover whether he is aroused ... if he is then obviously there is a mutual attraction and you could invite him out for a drink at a reputable establishment to discuss relevant issues in a more intimate fashion than in your emails ....
2006-07-01 06:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by neilcam2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you email him ask his what he and his wife did over the weekend, his response should tell you if he is married or attached. If he's not, go for it! It will be a little scary, but if you never try you will never know. He may be feeling the same as you.
2006-07-01 02:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by mdbg1949 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how many meetings you have met him, but if you have been putting out signals i think he is married or not interested,if he is the gentleman u think he would have responded some way.dont dwell on him move on there are other people just as shy waiting for someone like you
2006-07-07 17:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by peanuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and see if he is interessted in a relationship. Not with you just any old person. If he is, then tell him how you feel. Maybe he likes you too. Don't let him slip away from you. Try to get with him as soon as possible so there will be a chance he is still single.
2006-07-01 01:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by fairy_dust_xo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him out for coffee - don't go for a full-on date thing (y'no, dinner, cinema, walk you home thing) just yet, but do try just inviting him out for something subtle - just two friends meeting up in Starbucks to chat. Then see if he invites you out again. Don't ever think that you're not good enough for him, because you seem to be implying that in your question - you're a good as you feel!
2006-07-01 06:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Pebbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If possible go out with him for lunch, dinner or coffee. Start the conversation and ask if he is married, got any girl friends etc.
Now if he is single then might be good idea to proceed futher.
2006-07-01 01:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by an_eagles_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try walking over to the window without the aid of your zimmer frame. That might impress him, also if you collapse on teh floor he might come over to help you and then you can "touch". Good luck wth that!
2006-07-01 01:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first find out if he is married. Then If he is single try asking him out. If he says no you will know that he is not interested.
2006-07-07 22:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋