When is the appropiate time to hold your girlfriends hand? My girlfriend and I have talked a lot about waiting on the sexual side of our relationship, and I am totally into it. But she said she wanted to go slow with this relationship. Is holding her hand appropiate? And when is it appropiate?
2006-06-30 18:29:08 · 12 answers · asked by Cameron 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 18 and been dating for about a month.
2006-06-30 18:41:33 · update #1
holding her hand isn't sexual at all. its appropriate when it feels right to both of you. you should probably just ask her what her limitations are for now
2006-06-30 18:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by baby bear 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to tell from your question how old you are or how long you have been dating your girlfriend. I admire you for being sensitive to her desire to take things slow. Be observant - and most likely she'll throw you signals that she wants you to hold her hand. Be patient... it will be worth the wait. When it doubt, be brave and ask if it's ok. If she says not yet, then continue showing her respect in that.
2006-07-01 01:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude how old are you and what century are you living in? If she is too prudish to hold hands then find yourself someone else? holding hands is intimate and affectionate not sexual. Does she have some weird arousal disorder that makes her ultra sensitive to touch?
2006-07-01 01:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wonikas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone would think a couple holding hands would be inappropriate at any time. Unless of course you didn't want anyone (or certain people) to know. So, (as long as she's ok with it) to answer your questions yes and always.
2006-07-01 01:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by skip_2015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding someones hand isn't sexual, it's appropriate when both of you are comfortable with doing that.
2006-07-01 01:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing too forward about holding someones hand
2006-07-01 01:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're calling her your girlfriend, provided you're not in a formal ceremony or court of law, holding hands is not out of line.
2006-07-01 01:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hold her hand some time while you are walking together, if she has a problem with it Back off and apologize
2006-07-01 01:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frn..u r too slow....you are talking about invading the area and you don't know the map of it.
Go fast otherwise you would be left behind
2006-07-01 01:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her hand. She'll love it.
2006-07-01 01:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋