I work with another teacher and we have a huge amount in common, we're both athletic and love adventure. He loves to tease me, sends me funny emails and we have gone out dancing together as a group. I am really attracted to him not becuz he's good looking but becuz he's so kind esp to the kids he works with. He contacted me this summer, just sent me an email to see how I was doing. I don't know what to do, I really like him but I'm not forward enough to ask him out and besides we work together. I kinda figured if he was interested enough he'd ask me out...what would you do?
2006-06-30 18:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask him out...take the chance and run with it...ya never know he could be your soulmate.....Good Luck
2006-06-30 18:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you see if he wants to get together for a meal or maybe go to the movies? Or since you two are both athletic, see if he wants to do something active? This way it's not like you're asking him out, but you are able to get together with him just one-on-one.
2006-07-01 01:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write to him as much as u can..try to find out what he thinks about you..maybe he is thinking the same that u would give him some sort of indication that u like him too..
Someone has to take the initiative..and it might as well be you..he might be scared of rejection as i feel you are too..
Just try to find out what feelings he has about u..
try to break the ice by suggesting to go for a cup of coffee or something ...
DOnt be too aprehensive about relations getting tense because u two work together...just go ahead and find out ...
2006-07-01 01:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the teasing and emails are ways of him letting him you know that he's interested, hoping you might sense that and ask him out. I'm the boss at work and won't ask out a female employee afraid the girl might think its sexual harassment, maybe I'm too careful. probably why i'm single????
2006-07-01 01:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by William R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him out. He's probably feeling the same way about you as you feel about him otherwise he wouldn't be thinking about you. You may work together, but so what? Why should that stop you from getting your man?
2006-07-01 01:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to go out dancing again. Word it ambiguously enough that you save face if he's not interested, but let's him take that first move if he's so inclined and you're too shy/reserved.
2006-07-01 01:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him back and ask how hes doing and say somthing like you really miss hanging out with him and would he like to go out and do something together some time kinda make it sound like you just wanna hang out so he still has the chance to make his move
2006-07-01 02:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try flirting a little. When I was in school two teachers dated and then married.
2006-07-01 01:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by missee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WORK TOGETHER, IT IS A GOOD IDEA TO FIND A DIFFERENT GUY. ROMANCE AND WORK DON'T MIX. HE MAY NOT HAVE ASKED YOU OUT FOR THAT VERY REASON.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-01 01:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him! You wonder if there could be romance! HHMMM? Ask him!!! If you don't someone else will get him, and you will always wonder if there could have been more...
NO REGRETS! Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-01 01:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋