2006-06-30 17:49:34 · 36 answers · asked by Colin 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am non-religious and my GF is Christian. We discuss our beliefs but don't try to change each others views. We both have questions about the others beliefs and freely ask and learn more about each other every day. I think the theory behind "opposites attract" is due to people that differ from you are more interesting. If I was with someone just like me I would get bored and seek someone I could learn something from.
On the other hand, my best friend is married to a man of the same faith, had 2 children, and they are as happy as I am. She always liked to keep things simple and never take risks. I think befriending me was the biggest risk she ever took in her life and that was enough for her.
People are different. Some birds of a feather flock together while some flock to diversity.
2006-06-30 18:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lil D 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I often date girls with religion. I'm an atheist by the way. I see no problem having a relationship with someone of a different religion. That is, as long as the individual you're dating can stand own their own two feet, and not be dictated by the external factors. Of course, there will still be differences between partners, especially in regards to ethics and morality. The only advice I can give is, as long as there's understanding, tolerance and compromise, then expect smooth sailing, with a few instances of choppy waters ahead. I for one, always insists that any form of churches and temples are off limits, except for cultural-development purposes. That means, no church or temple services for me.
2006-06-30 18:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm no.. I'm like really stubborn about my atheistic and agnostic views.. I know it's really narrow-minded but like, it's so hard for ME to believe when someone doesn't believe in some crap theory like evolutionism. And I know that I get all fired up over nothing, so usually I never bring it up in a conversation unless the other person has the same views as me.
2006-06-30 17:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Emilie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its just you need to have an open mind. You can have a healthy realtionship if you just respect one another's beliefs. I'm dating an agnostic. I once dated an atheist. Its just all about the level of respect that is present.
2006-06-30 18:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be torture! Especially if you really liked them and then after the first date you found out that the other person believed something totally different! That would be bad cause then you still like that person but feel like you can't date them anymore! Wow that would stink and cause a lot of trouble!
2006-06-30 17:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by fairy_dust_xo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-30 17:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work with different beliefs, if your values are the same. But if you get married the in-laws can be a big, big problem. I have personally found that cultural differences are harder to deal with than religious, racial,political,etc. differences. Good luck and Happy Canada Day.
2006-06-30 18:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by the other one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a Christian who married a Muslim so yes. I have since converted to Islam. Not because I had to be because it was the right thing to do for me.
My parents have been married for 28 years and my Mother is a Christian and my Dad is an Atheist
2006-06-30 18:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Layla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I can, It's not that different. The point is that you love and care about that person. You shouldn't let religion get in the middle of love.
2006-06-30 17:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Agnostic (belief that something exists but unsure as to what) and my wife is Lutheran. We get along fine and Religion isn't an issue. Our son will be allowed to make his own decision and we will encourage him to do his research.
2006-06-30 17:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋