If someone were to commit suicide, what would happen? like the funeral arrangments and letting people know? if it were to be, let's say a teen, how would the parents let their freinds know? and how would they be reacting to all such things?
2006-06-30 17:37:12 · 16 answers · asked by Cirque Du Freak 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i'm not really planning on it, per se, i'm just thinking about how my death will effect people. just that everyone's being mean to me. and i feel i don't have anyone to live for. who would miss me?
2006-06-30 19:09:49 · update #1
people are in shock and calls are made to let people know...a friend of mine commited suicide 12 days ago...there is no standard way to deal with this and many people act differently
2006-06-30 17:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by sirch_sirch132 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure you know the answers to these questions. First of all if a person is asking themselve these questions then they know they should stop and go get help. Second you need to ask yourself how will this effect me and everyone that knows me or love me. And third everything will be done the same way as everyone else that have to plan a funeral for someone. They have to greive and try to explain to everyone what happen, try to find a funeral home and money to pay for everything get freinds and family together so people can talk about what happened. I have had alot of deaths in my family and it is not cool. But if someone in the family commit suicide that is different because most of the time in most cases the surrounding people tend to blame
themselves for a long time.And they would never get over what has happened. This have never happened to me I'm just saying. But anyway if you or someone you know is thinking about committing suicide you should talk to someone like a Pastor, teacher, or some because that just ain't right and people that commit suicide only go to one place after they die.
2006-07-01 00:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by sexyredd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The funeral arrangements would be the same. A lot of families tend not to tell others the event was a suicide due to shame or the stigma associated with it..It would be sad. Difficulty resolving grief can occur. They may feel like failures, or blame themselves or each other.There are stages of grieving: shock and disbelief, anger, denial, bargaining,depression and acceptance. They don't necessarily go in a particular order and sometimes people suffer all their lives which can lead to serious depression. Suicide hurts more people than the victim's friends and families. Losing a child is one of the most devastating experiences. Help is always out there. Hope is always available.
2006-07-01 00:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend committed suicide a few years ago. She was 29 she tried three times and ended up just hurting herself and making herself sick. When she finally took enough pills (not going to go in to what kind of pills!) she was fine the 1st day, was in pain for two days as she would drift in and out on consciousness. The four day she went into a coma and slowly and painfully she went-it took two weeks for her body to fully shut down. Let me tell you it was gruesome and to this day her sisters and parents aren't the same. It's so bad the pretend she is still alive and that she will be coming home. It cost her family thousands in hospital bills, funeral arrangements. But remember when your alive theres always a tomorrow once you take your life it's final.
2006-07-01 00:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Daz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The parents don't have to tell everyone that it was death by suicide, that kind of thing is best kept within the family in my opinon. I think lossing a child to suicide is the worst thing to happen to a parent because parents will more readily blame themselves for not recognizing the teenagers misery and helping them. If anyone is thinking about suicide, try to see through the fog of deppression and see that others truely do care about you and would be sad or even destroyed if you die.
2006-07-01 00:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously I think you need to get some help but just in case you are not thinking of what it sounds like my friend commited suicide when I was in the 9th grade many years ago and it was public news the family did not have to let anyone know and in his case he shot himself in the head so at the funeral they had a open casket and they had his cowboy hat sitting like it was over his face and he was wearing his baseball uniform and of course they would all be very upset so like I said if you are contimplating thsi please go get help because a little thing is not worth loosing your life over.
2006-07-01 00:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for a start, friends and family would be very very sad. Funeral arrangements would cost a ton and it would definitely be hard for the parents to tell the family and friends that their kid comitted suicide.
2006-07-01 00:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would probably cause your parents great pain so I hope your not thinking about it nothings that bad it may feel that way at the moment but I promise you it will all get better nothing or no one is worth dying if you dont love yourself enough not to do it you should not do it for you parents.
2006-07-01 00:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by camarozsonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a trgedy that effects everyone who knows the person.
the parents in that situation probably feel awful. i can't imagine the feeling.
i hope you're feeling ok. it's never really that bad. you should talk to someone .
2006-07-01 02:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Stuie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bipolar.
When I become manic, I am out of control-my mind writes checks that my body can't cash.
Then comes the crash and burn.
All I can think about is how much I want to die.
2006-07-01 01:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by myhous99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋