I need help from all women!!!!!!!?

Question

Women baffle me. (Duh!!!!) But I'm determined to better my relationships with them. I don't know why just yet.... (Moving on) Can I get some "detailed" pointers. Some good example's I've come across that were eye openers: Women really don't care about how something works, even if they look like they're paying attention while you're talking (Hours of wasted explanations on my part!!! Thanks estrogen). also, Never correct a woman's misspellings, they take it differently than a man would. Thanks for any help you can give. And try not to be vague please.... Example: treat them nice.

Answer 1

sorry cant help you very much best of luck

Answer 2

A big thing--actually having something in common with her! Its always good for you to like some of the same things. It gives you a starting point for convos.
Now, if you find someone that actually likes knowing how things work, then by all means, talk about it. I, for one, am interested in how different things work. I may not understand it totally but that just leads to more questions....which lead to other questions not related to what was being explained. Know what I mean? Like you could start out talking about car stereos and somehow 2 hours later end up on what kind of dog you had growing up.
Being yourself is a HUGE one. If you cant do something, dont act like you can just because you *think* the chick might like it. Its a waste. If I ask a guy if he can rollerblade and he says yes, then I'm going to wonder why he's on his rear end when we're out trying to rollerblade.
Crap, I hate when I have answers for the question while I read it and then once I try to type it all out I lose it. LOL Hope the 2 things I did get typed out help you. If not, email me and maybe I can get more typed. LOL

Answer 3

First there is not hard fast rule, when it comes to women.

Each one is her own person, and depending on personality, background and culture will have a very different answer.

Some women look for a man to take care of her. She will expect them to make many of the decisions. With this type, polite, loving, and caring will get you a long way.

Some women are very dominate, they require a very self confident man who isn't threaded by this.

Most of us are in the middle, and look for some one equal to us. He may be better than us in some areas, but is able to accept we stronger in other areas.

There are a few things that are pretty general to most women.

Don't call me 'Honey', 'Cutie', 'Sweety' or 'Baby' unless we have a been a couple for a while and you have earned that right. Being called any of those names can come off very condescending, by anyone who isn't close.

Example: I was at the car lot, looking to buy a car... "Don't worry about that Sweety, it isn't important" My blood pressure went through the roof with the word 'Sweety'!

Come here 'Honey' I would like to meet a friend of mine. This was on a first date!!! I'm no one's 'Honey' on a first date.

Don't assume to know more than we do.
My youngest is a attractive light skin, blue eyed girl with long natural blond hair. She also was able to basic car repairs at age 15, is in the top 2% of the general population (I.Q.), graduated at the top of her class and has a Masters in Geologly/Chemistry, fixing to start her Ph.D. More guys than I can remember got shot out of the saddle for assuming that she couldn't understand something.

Don't assume you know what we do for a living, and if you must guess.. go for the higher ranking position.
What do you do for a living? I work with commercial aircraft. Oh are you a flight attendant? While there is nothing wrong with being a flight attendant, there are many other jobs we might be in... like pilot or even owner.

You get the idea, most of it is common sense, engage brain before engaging mouth.

Treat a woman as a person, with respect.

If you don't know something ask!

Listen to what she says, both by word and body language. She may voice one thing, but be really saying something else (often trying to be polite). Also her choice of words, will often allow you to read between the lines.
Leaving a loud night club... Didn't just love that band? - It was very unique.

Shop until you find one that has similar interests, and a accents your personality.

BTW Very seldom do two of the same personality type do well with each other.

Bottom line... this issue has been going on for thousands of years. Folks get rich writing books, and getting paid for lectures on the subject. Men today are no closer to understanding women then they were a thousand years ago. On the other hand, men can be just as hard to understand. Think about it... most comedians use this for part of the routine.

Good luck!

Answer 4

if they insist that everythings fine like this "it's FINE" then it's not. if she says it like this "its fine" just kind of normal then it is.

do not get impatient when a women is shopping. she is going to search the entire mall if she needs to to find the perfect outfit. and complaining makes it worse. just carry the bags and don't speak unless spoken to like a good slave.

women do not appreciate bodily functions the way a man does. so don't do them around her too much and say "that was a good one."

when women get pissed at each other it is one of two ways:
the sugery sweet way or the all out ***** way

the sugery sweet way is when two women are being competive and are insulting them in a voice that would make willy wonka get a toothache. men generally do not see that they are fighting because they are disguising it with their voices. they think that they are being sweet or something.

the second way is the traditional cat fight. you know it well. although women fight verbally generally because we are smart and know that words leave a longer sting than punches. girls know exactly the right buttons to press to leave another girl crying.

also never tell a women she is wrong. if she is she will find it out herself eventually. she will not listen to you.

crazy as it seems she really doesn't want to know the yankee's chances of beating the red sox so don't go over the teams stats and etc. unless she is a fan.

there are more but it could fill a book. those are the most important ones.

Answer 5

I would say the first part is wrong. I was always interested in how something worked. I learned to rebuild an engine at 13. I can troubleshoot and tell you what is wrong with your vehicle by the way its acting and I can change parts on my own truck without the help of anyone else like the starter, alternator, battery, solenoid, and other things. I guess on the misspellings I would for the most part agree. Women don't like it if their man thinks their stupid. You just need to do it in a nicer way. Good luck on those future relationships.

Answer 6

Well, the first and most important thing I would say is recognize that every woman is unique, and wants to be treated and respected as special in her own right. For example, I don't have a problem with someone correcting my misspellings, and depending on what it is, there are things I would like to know about how they work. If I'm not interested, I'm polite enough to stop someone from embarrassing both of us by allowing them to carry on...
If you are genuine and sincere, I think that is important to most women. Every one wants to think the person they are with is genuinely interested in them, so it's always nice to ask about them.
There is no substitute for being truly interested, kind and considerate.

Answer 7

Most women like guys to listen to their problems without trying to solve them. You know if your girl says: "My boss is such a ***** and she takes credit for my work", she just wants some hand-holding and sympathy, not advice on what she should do.

Also, don't try to have sex with an upset woman to cheer her up - she might get cranky. I wouldn't, but I'm very unusual. I couldn't care less about misspellings, for example.

You will get more sex by helping with the housework or cooking her dinner and doing the washing up than by buying flowers.

Most women don't mind how much sport you watch on TV as long as the sound is turned down low (I read that in a magazine survey).

Answer 8

First just accept the fact that men and women think differently - the other sex is not just acting weird to frustrate you. Netflix has some good DVDs entitled "Different by Design" which might throw some light on the subject for you.
Sincere compliments are always welcome, even if it's something as simple as, "you look nice in that outfit", "good meal, Mom", "great job, sis" (yes, female relatives respond to compliments too).
Last bit of advise. Most men don't realize that women can memorize words that come out of your mouth almost instantly. If if the comment you're about to make isn't something you're going to want to hear about in the future or have repeated, you may want to keep it to yourself.

Answer 9

Open the car door for her, run up and hug her. Stand back and look at her and tell her how good she looks. Never stop telling her how good she looks, women need the reassurance from their man, hold her hand...kiss her on the forehead....always want to look your best for her, because when you stop caring about your appearance, you have a problem in the relationship. Let her vent, let her be emotional...she will get over it...if you listen. Ask her how her day was...ask her what can you do for her. Be sincere, among all these things, be sincere in all these things.

Answer 10

If you are having the same problems with every woman you date, it sound like you are only dating one "type" of woman. Try this, date a few different types of women; a *****, a high maintenance girl, a nerd, a skater, girl next door, etc, etc. Then figure out what you like, and go from there. Either that, or if you have a friend who's a girl you get along with really well, ask her if she has a friend that she could set you up on a blind date with.

Answer 11

A good woman is a *********...that means a woman Being In Total Control of Herself!
A woman wants pretty much the same thing that a man does..respect and good loving. Most women want "Just Because Gestures". We want flowers...just because. We want phone calls...just because. We want a massage...just because. We want to come home to a clean house and no dirty dishes. We want men to be secure enough with themselves to appreciate our own success, wants and needs.
In bed we want a man that does not take offense if we direct traffic. There are times when a man should appreciate a woman driver. Besides if your man satisfies you...he shall reap the rewards. Most women want a man who takes care of himself. You know ...fresh breath, clean and smells good. If a man wears the right cologne it will trigger a woman's senses and drive her crazy. I personally like it when my man's cologne lingers on his pillow case. I just lay there taking in the scent...the right cologne is foreplay! Hell...the right words are foreplay and knowing you are truly loved and respected is enough to keep things going.
Hope this helps!