I think its good that men do things like that for women, but I also think there are thing women should do for men. What are some of those things you think they should do?
2006-06-30 17:32:10 · 19 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should say thank you when a man is poilte.
There really arn't set rules with who does what for who.
The important thing is that the man and woman do things for each other. The more you give the more you get. Spoil and be spoiled. There aren't definate boy- girl rules much anymore. If a man is a good cook, then let him spoil his girl by cooking. then she can thank him by doing the dishes.
If a man is the breadwinner of the househohld a woman should thank her mate for all his hard work. Creat a loving and happy home that each of you feel wonderful in.
2006-06-30 17:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A few things that turn men off: 1. Harping about politics. (If I hear another woman talk about women's rights, or animal rights I am going to vomit. And if I hear that classic tangent about how women have periods and babies, I will order a very expensive dinner, eat, and leave her there to pick up the check.) 2. expecting us to meet your parents. (Every woman has at least one psychotic parent.) 3. Talking about your sexual history, especially on the first date (or worse yet, comparing your date to past lovers.) 4. Expecting me to pay for EVERYTHING. (I'm broke, the economy is a terrible state, and somehow I'm expected to buy her things.) 5. Bad hygiene. If the floor of your car or house is covered in garbage, or has animal excrement, I will leave immediately. (Yes. some women really are that sloppy.) 6. Gossip is a very big red flag. Things I would like to see more of on a date: 1. manners: remembering to say "thanks for dinner" will earn you a lot of points. (Please don't get into a phone conversation with one of your friends while we're at the table of a restaurant [unless it's important], it's incredibly rude.) 2. Give feedback: Are you interested or not? Do you want to see me again, or not? (Are you interested in a relationship, or are you just using me for a free dinner? That's what men are wondering on every date.)
2016-03-26 23:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are things you can do for a man. Aside from the sexual side of things, you can always cook a man a good meal. As you may have heard, his heart is through his belly. When you cook make his plate, don't let him make it for himself. If you know the things he likes, get it for him before he asks or even attempts to get it himself. For example, he loves beer and chips. Make sure that is on your grocery list at all times! :) Unplanned massages are also a nice gesture. Those are some things to say the least. Whatever you decide to do for him, make sure you are receiving in return. It goes both ways!
2006-06-30 17:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by ~Virtuous Woman~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you kiddin me? We spend enough time over the stove for them... they should AT LEAST be opening doors for us, and paying for our dinner. Really, women have come such a long way, we still deserve respect and attention. We haven't come so far as to achieving equality...but even though now that we can get some of the same jobs as men doesn't mean we don't deserve some respect. We're the reason people are here on this earth. We have their babies, and we iron their clothes, we even cook them their food after a long day at work. the LEAST they could do is return it with manners, and attention. A woman should never settle for a man that doesn't open a door for her....he's obviously not focussed on giving her the respect she deserves.
2006-06-30 17:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by algal1120 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Besides some of the obvious that have been posted (yes, and even I thought of the sexual favors as well), when I am with my man, I try to do things like get him a drink if he's thirsty, offer him something if he is hungry, rub his back, etc.
2006-06-30 17:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
like women not all are the same. you want a general answer then it's going to be sexual. you want to get specific, you need to learn about the person. like watch something he likes (movie, sports etc.) or maybe he always works for you *cough* he's on top etc.. maybe you work for a bit ;) but really all people are different. as for me (non sexually of course) ;) i girl that i could talk to about life and everything is priceless.
2006-06-30 17:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chivalry (doors, holding chairs, etc.) is fine and I still do it, but hypocrisy in response isn't acceptable.
Ladies, stop complaining about the toilet seat. If men have to lift it up, you can put it down.
2006-06-30 17:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Draw him a bath with lighted tapers and soft music. then follow it up by giving him a nice soft long massage. Also washing his car in a set of heels, Daisy Dukes, and a cotton baby t-shirt with no bra. while he watches and sips ice tea made by your hands.
2006-06-30 20:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this was supposed to be a nonsexual answer <.< Anyway...ummm one of my exes thought it was cute that I opened doors for him sometimes....or paid for dinner...stuff like that is nice for a guy sometimes
2006-06-30 17:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by silverelffairy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when he open the car door for you lean over and unlock his door for him, when he opens a door for you sat thank you, when he pays for dinner offer to pay half(he wont let you but offer), if he buys you a gift for no reason, buy him a gift for no reason,if he compliments you do the same, there are many other things you just have to dothe opposite but switch it up a bit, dont do it just cuz he doid it, surprize him like he is doing to you, use your maners like he is doing.say thank you to show you are grateful. goodl uck.
2006-06-30 17:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋