Im going to an all girls boarding school this coming year and since i passed the test my mom said she would get me a laptop. But i guess im sort of afraid she'll be mad at me for bringing it up and that if she does get me the laptop she'll make me do extra chores and expect more from me and that if she gets me this she wont have enough money for anything else like my clothes and my sisters clothes and bills and etcetera.
2006-06-30 16:50:29 · 19 answers · asked by MizzQ-T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like a totally different story here with you and your mom.
I think your mother has took the step to protect you from what is going on in your house>>>you know with the fist fighting with your brother,etc.<<<< I wouldn't mention it to your mother as of yet, if she said she would get you one then she will but it is another month & 1/2 for school starts again. If you are setting back & expecting it then it will not be a surprise. If you haven't gotten it like 2 weeks before school start ask her if you can go with her to get the laptop & then you will find out what her intentions are about getting one. You never know it might be in her bedroom closet right now as you are setting there typing questions & reading answers. good luck.
2006-06-30 17:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think that is very kind and considerate of you to be so concerned about the financial impact that the laptop could have on your family. I don't think you should forget the laptop....you will find that it will become a must for your education.
If there is any way you could earn your own money (through babysitting, cleaning someone's home, etc) and then see if you could pitch in a little for your laptop, that may alleviate your fear of your mother becoming upset at you for bringing it up. I think, though, if you approached your mom and explained that you understand how costly laptops are, maybe it's difficult for her to purchase one for you, etc. I really believe she would not only appreciate your concern, but would find a way to get one for you without hurting the family budget. I will keep my fingers crossed!!!
2006-06-30 23:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can i put this? First off, it depends exactly what you intend to use this laptop for. If you are going to use it for strictly working on work then i am sure you should be able to find a cheaper grade laptop. However, if you feel the need to use it more for playing movies, games, etc. Then obviously the price tag is going to skyrocket, not all laptops are built equally. If your worried about money go for a cheaper laptop that has everything you need to get your school work done. Although you could always get a desk-top.
2006-06-30 23:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by t-bomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mom sounds nice. I doubt she will forget it. If you want to bring it up, go ahead. Don't think she'll get mad. Just tell her you're concerned over the cost of the laptop and her other bills pilling up because of it. She'll love you for being so sweet!
2006-06-30 23:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by soleil_fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is going to surprise you with it. Meanwhile, Have you considered making some extra money on your own? There are lots of odd jobs kids can do to make some cash. That would show her a lot, and it would make you feel better too.
2006-06-30 23:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't forget it, but kindly remind her about it. Tell her that if it can't be done, it will not mean the end of the world. It is hard for any person to be the sole provider of children. Maybe in time she can, or maybe she has a back-up plan. Regardless, she stills loves you whether she buys it or not.
2006-06-30 23:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by bettyboop0251 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mother wants to get you a lap top to reward you for doing such a wonderful job on your test. I really think you're worrying about nothing and it's very sweet that you are not thinking only of yourself. Your mother is very blessed to have you for a daughter.
2006-06-30 23:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shucks, just do the chores and forget about clothes cuz you gotta wear a uniform at dat skool, right? or if not still, the other girls wont care unless their lez. so just ask for it.
get an ibook!
2006-06-30 23:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get it or else it wud seem like ur pushin it... u didnt expect her 2 even offer a laptop but she said it so she'll give it 2 you when she can but dont say nothing really... if u are like just say it like dat but dont ask her 4 it.
2006-07-01 00:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by melibishou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great of you to be so considerate. I would let it go, personally. Odds are your mom didn't promise you something that major and forget it. Give it time--this can be major budgeting acrobatics for many moms!!
2006-06-30 23:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋