Guys i know us girls are confusing, but its worse being a girl!! i mean if i tell you i dont wanna hear about it...its true..i dont, but deep down I HAVE TO HEAR ABOUT IT!! so just tell me, and if i give you **** for telling me, its better than not telling me and me thinking there is something going on! so just tell me ok! Thanks:-D
2006-06-30 16:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought I was confused and didn't understand women. Now ... I realize just how much I don't understand them!
That reminds me of the old advice I was given: If a girl says "no" she means "yes" ... if she says "maybe" she means "yes" and if she says "yes" ... scratch your head!
Next time, just be straight with the guy instead of playing your games. You'd be suprised how well it will work. If you want to hear it, ask. If you don't want to hear it, say no. Simple.
You will find guys so damn much easier to understand if you leave the contradictions behind and just be straightforward with *them*. They'll take the clue and be straight with you.
Then you can both be understood. Understand? LOL
2006-06-30 16:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sponge bender thanks for the back-up. I could only imagine how hard it is to be a girl. but in truth i think it is only hard to be a girl if you decide to be a good one. ;) am I not right? and as far as being a guy well I'm judged from every other guy you met. right? if every single guy you've ever known was bad to you and we dated what would you think of me? sweetie it's hard for everyone who's trying to be good. And i agree about 'some' guys not getting it but hay give us some credit. you girls say one thing and mean something else. "go away" means "come back" and "leave me alone" is "don't go" some guys didn't pass the language course sorry. maybe if you just said how you felt open and honestly (yeah right i know) it would be easier for us all.
P.S. I get it ;)
2006-06-30 16:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: if you say you don't want to hear about something, you have to send a clear signal that you did not mean it literally. Otherwise, a guy will assume you really do not want to hear about it and will not tell you because he does not want to offend you. All right? If you have to hear about it, then be truthful and ask for the information.
2006-06-30 16:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by BroadwayPhil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I get it and I have been there before. It's called communication between the sexes because we are so different with the way we express ourselves. I'm open and very forthcoming about matters that concern me in a relationship and have no problem expressing my feelings at all!
2006-06-30 16:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to an author who's name I can't remember she said that men think like waffels-one thing at a time and then they move to the next hole. Women, she says , think like spaghette and we have lots of stuff going every direction at once. Essentially men can't follow this. It is them that are lost. Not us.
2006-06-30 16:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to just relax, let the guy in for a quickie, then go on. Thats the best way to get on living with guys. No hassle on your end, none on mine.
2006-06-30 16:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you know its worse to be a girl? Have you been a guy recently??
2006-06-30 16:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl - they'll never get it! Remember they have two heads and they normally think with the second one only!
2006-06-30 16:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay it is hard ta tell some people what u think cause they may take it tha wrong way
2006-06-30 16:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by cartwright_terrance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is this about? what do u want to be told? Once I know u can hear about it.
2006-06-30 16:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋