OOOOOh and you were so excited, too. I saw your other questions from before. I am so sorry you lost your little nephew or niece. Sometimes these things just happen. Not all things can be answered. Why the baby never formed is a question the doctors will have to answer. Your sister-in-law will have a miscarriage and the baby will leave her system like a period but a little longer. She will be sad and need a friend to hold her hand and cry with her. This baby was very real. You go ahead and cry because you lost this person in your family. That is totally ok.
2006-06-30 17:35:24
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answered by The Y!ABut 6
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Grief is absolutely normal when you are dealing with loss of a baby...the fetus is a underdeveloped human being. in addition to grief other feelings like failure or inadequacy may arise since the loss may stem from thinking the mother has done something wrong and therefore it's the fault for losing the life of another. Not to mention a lot of expectant mothers and fathers start planning for the birth including naming and nesting. When expectations are not met people have the tendency to want to place blame in regards to why the fetus has become nonviable. I know that these feelings can take a long time to heal from and still think about what I could have done differently in order to have carried the pregnancy full term. When you miscarry your body inevitably flushes the fetus and foreign matter naturally. When you find out from the doctor they may elect to preform a D & C to remove the fetus and ensure you don't have to have a delivery of the infant. They will preform this to ensure that you dont have to deal with going through labor.
2006-07-01 00:21:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not sure what you details mean, but it is normal to grieve over the loss of a baby. I had a miscarriage a few months ago, although I hadn't realized it at the time. I knew it was alot of blood and cramping so late in the period and I had a large clump of blood in it. I just passed it off as just a heavier period... but the more I researched the more I am convinced, and I asked my doc and he said it was most likely what happened. I am glad I wasn't trying to get preg at the time (I was on birthcontrol) so it made it easier to take, although I wonder what it would have been like to be pregnant. Or if I HAD carried the baby to full term. I try not to think about it, because THAT makes me sad. I just guess it wasn't meant to be at that time. Be comforting to your sis, and let her know that you are there for her and that sometimes these things happen for no reason.
2006-06-30 23:40:21
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answered by Troopers_Gurl 3
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You can grieve over just about any loss. What happens depends on how far along she was, sometimes if it's really early the body will just absorb everything, other times you'll have a misscarriage and still other times you'll have to have a procedure called a D&C done to remove all of the things that were there and didn't come out
2006-07-01 01:39:37
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answered by Anonymous
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im confused ok theres no baby yes its very normal to greeve, but as far as the rest of that the doctors will go in and take care of it hope that helps
2006-07-01 00:06:59
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answered by mommyof3 3
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I don't really understand your question but it is normal for people to grieve over the loss of a baby/child.
2006-07-01 00:59:45
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answered by jj02 4
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when this happens their is only the sac,since their is no baby eventually the sac will collapse and she will pass it.this has happened to me,its ok to greive because in her mind,she had a baby,not an empty bag
2006-07-03 02:23:47
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answered by Anonymous
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It is very normal to grieve I dont know how you can be human and not.....she will probably end up passing it
2006-06-30 23:39:02
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answered by Anonymous
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its normal to greeve...we wouldnt be humans if we didnt...about all that other stuff..idk...
2006-06-30 23:40:02
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answered by Anonymous
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i don't really know? you should let her have what ever feelings she wants to have and support her.
2006-06-30 23:38:44
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answered by tiffani h 3
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