He wants to go to bartending school to become a bartender, my problem with it is I don't trust him in that type of environment. I've never known him to cheat on me before, but he was with someone when we got together and he was caught lying to me about chatting with a girl online, and he was suppose to meet up with her one time but she didn't show up....he says he wasn't going to meet her anyway. I found out about them b/c he told me she was still calling him and asked me to talk to her about it. I know if he's going to cheat, he can do it without being a bartender, but I think he'd be more prone to do it in that type of environment....what do you think? Would you go along with it, or tell him if he does it, you're leaving b/c you don't want to even put yourself through the worry of wondering if he's going to do something he shouldn't?
2006-06-30 16:24:31 · 5 answers · asked by ThatsNachocheese 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...and if you're a guy, do you think he's got alterior motives to be a bartender, or do you think, it's all about the money?
2006-06-30 16:29:54 · update #1
One thing is for sure.. bartending or no bartending.. if he has crush on someone else and likes her more than he will leave.. sorry to say but it may come out as a fight and hurtful words.
But if he says that he is done and his actions support that you both are lucky.
I don't think bartending has much to do with it.
2006-06-30 16:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my brother is a bartender and owner for a popular night club in pittsburgh and ended up becoming the top 5 most hottest bartender in the state.
2006-06-30 23:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in being with someone I don't trust. I don't want to spend my time checking up on somebody or worrying about what they're doing when they're not with me. I've got more important things to do with my life. You should rethink this "relationship".
2006-06-30 23:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey aren't male bartenders gay?
2006-06-30 23:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tessa ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a straight guy so I don't know how I'd feel
2006-06-30 23:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋