If your boyfriend or girlfriend that you really love with all your heart....... had sex before you with another boy or girl and they used a condom but condoms aren't always full proof and 100% safe. But anyway the guy or girl that you boyfriend or girlfriend had sex with had genital warts, and your girlfriend or boyfriend now has the diease and has given it to you, would you leave or would you go, because he or she didn't do it on purpose and had no clue..........Please think about this and tell me what you would do
2006-06-30 16:00:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
That's totally up to you..but you both need to make sure you take care of this problem before you give it to someone else.
2006-06-30 16:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not go to Wikipedia, this is my personal opinion. Anyway, if you love this guy, I mean really love him, then give him a chance. If he didn't do it on purpose, and only an evil *sshole would, then don't just throw him to the side because of this. However, with that being said....If you think that this is something that you cannot put in past and not throw in his face everytime you guys argue then it may be best just to move on. If you guys constantly fight about it the relationship is going to suffer anyway and you both will be miserable. Remember, though, that if you were to start dating someone new the right thing to do would be to tell them that you transmitted an STD unknowingly from your ex boyfriend. The right time to tell them would not be at the point of crawling into bed together either. It would be so very hard to tell someone that, though. You have a hard decision to make. Think about things long-term. Think about your future and his, too. Be fair to yourself and him. Good luck and God bless you.
2006-07-01 00:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has had previous relations(well almost everyone) so the fact that this did not happen during your relationship has no bearing on your current relationship,and perhaps the other person did not know of the condition .If the genital warts are treatable,then get them fixed and get on with life if you realy love each other then move forwards and stop crying over spilt milk.
2006-06-30 23:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ron~N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, and one that many people (myself included) are dealing with. In many cases (me again) people are dealing with larger health issues. My boyfriend, who is already HIV positive (I've learned to deal with it) told me, after a year and a half, that he was having an 'outbreak' (outbreak of what?-I'm thinking). It turns out that he also had herpes (aw, hell!). I felt betrayed that he didn't tell me a lot sooner, but I'm slowly learning to 'deal with it'. The upside is that he warned me of the danger of having any contact during this period when he was highly contagious. I, along with my best friend - who somehow manages to date only HIV positive men (luck of the draw, I guess), decided that we would not immediately tell our partners if we contracted HIV from them. The herpes is a little harder to conceal, though...it does scare me. Condoms offer no protection from this, as the rash (it appears in different forms) is on an area near, not 'on', his genitals. There is an old phrase (that really tests me, sometimes, when I hear it) that goes "Love Will Find A Way". One way to look at the situation is to reverse the roles: would he/she be as understanding and accepting if I was the one with it? Tough question, but it may help.
2006-06-30 23:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by tankboy444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gift that keeps on giving. Why to only have one person and be married to them too. Go to a health professional and get help and stop having an alley cat mentality.
2006-06-30 23:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really and Truly Love with all your heart, no wrong can ever be done, no mistakes made, True love is Understanding, Forgiving , Listening, Patience and whole buncha other superlative adjectives that are deep.
2006-06-30 23:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As part of the 20 people reading your answer and giving you advice, I think I would make them go to the doctor with me and discuss the issue with him or her to get real answers on this. HPV is really not something you want to screw around with.
2006-06-30 23:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by ginarene71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he/she didn't do it on purpose and you really love him/her, the two of you need to openly and honestly discuss the disease and control/cure of it so you don't keep spreading it back and forth. I have heard they are painful for a woman but they are curable.
2006-06-30 23:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he already gave me herpes and he got it before we hooked up, I'd have to think about whether or not he knew he had it. If I feel he didn't know I'd probably stay because he did nothing wrong.
2006-06-30 23:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the nearest mental health clinic pronto tonto
2006-06-30 23:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋