This guy that's flirted with me before. But then was just really friendly. He gave me a lot of mixed signals. Maybe I gave him some I don't know. He's 25 and he seems so comfortable talking to women in their mid 40's. And befriending them. These women are also not at all attractive. I'm not saying I'm great looking. I'm 35 and just to me average looking. I don't want him to think I like him. Because maybe that scares him off. I just really want to be his friend. But if I talk to him he might get the wrong impression. He just sometimes seems so sad, and I wish he could talk to me like he talks to these others. How do I do it without him thinking I like him in another way? He obviously doesn't think these women would have any interest in him. But I think I've sent some signals and I do think he's cute. But I know it could never be that way. So I want him as a friend.
2006-06-30 15:31:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol
2006-06-30 15:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep conversations light and talk to him like you would a girlfriend...maybe there will be no mixed signals after that
2006-06-30 22:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up act like an adult and speak to him and quit whinning about it on the internet
2006-06-30 22:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by that's funny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would just forget about him as being a friend ,it sounds like u r jealous.finds people to talk to that is your own age and that u have more in common with gl
2006-06-30 22:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Starbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be open and honest with him. Explain the above in less than three full sentences. If you cannot do that, you never will be his friend.
2006-06-30 22:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out if you offer yourself to him, it will remove any temptation of him lusting after you as a friend.
2006-06-30 22:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO THINGS HE LIKES TO DO, SHOW INTREST IN THOSE THINGS, AND U WILL MAKE A FRIEND.
2006-06-30 22:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Babygirl86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur network signal is not good enough.change ur operator & talk to him in person c what he wants. giv him wat he wants if u like to.
2006-06-30 22:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that then.
2006-06-30 22:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him...
2006-06-30 22:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by נessιcα. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋