Add more heat to the fire you've kissed, hugged ,seen each others parents,felt places.(i love this s**T).
2006-06-30 15:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by isaac s 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Ohh this is not for me just for the record(yeash).
2006-06-30 15:30:46 · update #1
You will want to tell this person that you have cherished the experiences you've had with this person, but that you do not wish to be friends with this person. Don't empahsize "don't like them". Tell this person that you have growth underway and that you have other things you would like to work on. Mention that this friendship might interefere with your goals. Mention that its nothing personal, and that there isn't anything wrong with the other person, but that you encourage that this person seek their own experiences as you are doing the same.
I always recommend to seek guidance in prayer about situations that are sticky, and if you go to someone that knows the bible in and out, you will be sure to receive similiar stories or predicaments.
Blessings,
Cheryl
2006-06-30 15:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have been sending confusing messages if not by voice by body language and heavy petting. If you don't like this person, as in not wanting to be romantically involved, then first you need to stop sending the wrong messages by touching and enjoying physical contact even if you are trying to tell her/him you don't love them. You have conflicting signals going on there. If you want to be friends then be honest enough to explain how you have enjoyed your relationship to this point but that you just want to be friends and nothing more. It may hurt feelings but not as much as if you continue to send mixed signals. Then you also never know sometimes friends eventually find they enjoy each other so much it turns romantic. In your case though distance yourself from her and stop touching otherwise you are not being a friend at all but a user.
2006-06-30 22:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by alagk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hugging, kissing, and feeling (which sounds to me like you're taking advantage of the fact that the person likes you) and say, "I don't feel the same for you that you apparently feel for me. I would rather not go out with you any longer." Then duck.
2006-06-30 22:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHH thats a tough situation. I usually just ignore the person. Ignorance is bliss. However, if u really must , then maybe the finger might work. (Body language works best)
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2006-06-30 22:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by ☆The-Siren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use her until you get the goods, then slowly wean her off by saying you think your moving to fast or you need some time to think about the relationship. You sound young(teens) so its all a game anyway. You learn, she learns, emotional pain isn't necessarily bad, just makes you stronger.
2006-06-30 22:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alloy Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- well darling all over sudden I have realised I am gay or straight whichever applies
- Its not you its me
- if I was a million times wiser I would probably stay with you till the end of time but since I am this way I think the time has come for us to part.
2006-06-30 22:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Krator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i slowly stopped all communication (on purpose) and i saw the guy a couple of months later and he was like "wow i cant believe we lost touch". i think it was effective because i hate being direct - but with someone else i just told him "Bye!". either way worked for me.
2006-06-30 22:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by K8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop leading her on. Say, o.k., I am a jerk and I should not have done those things b/c I really don't like you.
2006-06-30 22:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure of what you are saying before you say it! Don't regret it if you are not sure if that is definately how you feel.
2006-06-30 22:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. I dont like you.
2006-06-30 22:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by mnmnk00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋