I told this guy that I like him, and his reaction confused me, he said "o ok, that's cool" I asked Really, since I'm used to being rejected, and his response was "uh... sure" but when I see him around, I get nervous thinking he doesn't like me and I'll catch him glancing at me from time to time, but online he'll ignore me, or annoy me... what do you all think?
2006-06-30 15:15:52 · 32 answers · asked by Redfox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 18:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 15⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW FREAKY THIS IS!
OMG! My crush found out and started to do the same things, awkwardness, glances, ALL OF IT!
A few weeks later things started to ease into normal, cuz we started feeling comfortable again.
But from the way he talks and flirts and acts I know he is interested.
Those glances? The isolation? HE IS AFRAID! HE IS ESTATIC and he may not be ready.
But the truth is, on some level he likes you back!
So just go with it...build that trust again, and you'll get him.
;)
2006-06-30 15:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it be, if he were interested he would have taken the next step. Do not chase after any man, he will view you as pathetic and desperate.
Never want someone that does not want you the same and with the same intensity. Anything less is a lost cause and a definite heart break.
2006-06-30 15:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Virtuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just c if he comes on 2 u if he do! Thats good but if he dont just know he turned u down EASY but also TRY 2 b friends wit him.
2006-06-30 15:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Parie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he looks at you from time to time thinking he knows somebody who likes him.... but ignoring you online is stupid!!! if he didnt like you he should have told you by now or... given stronger signs he might just be shy and isnt ignoring just nervous!
2006-06-30 15:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't really care that u like him at first but now is having secong thoughts and might or eventually ask u out.Good luck
2006-06-30 15:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is talking **** behind your back, give up on him and look for someone bold enough to give you a straight answer,then while you are not worried about it, he may come around,and if not who cares,you can always find someone better, don't waste your time with immaturity, life is to short to have to withstand any unnecessary emotional pain
2006-06-30 15:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this guy isn't into you. If he were he would've responded with more enthusiasm to your revelation (guys who are shy love it when a woman comes out and says what she wants).
2006-06-30 15:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he loves , in the special way a dog, loves another dog, whenshe is in heat .
2006-06-30 15:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by gwarr129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's younger than maybe about 17, he likes you. If he's older, then he's just socially awkward.
2006-06-30 15:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋