What do you do if you like this girl and you sort of think that she likes you because she's been acting kind of flirty toward you and you want to make a move, but you're worried that if you do and something goes wrong, you'll ruin your friendship?
2006-06-30 15:15:28 · 18 answers · asked by Michael 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i, until a few weeks ago had the same problem. ask her out to a move and sit next to her. dont do it as a date but as friends. let her choose the movie. sit in the back (armrests go up for easier hand holding) through the first third of the movie maintain contact (two arms on the armrest or legs touching) it sounds corny but just go with it. after that slowly create more contact and put your hand on your leg but close to her. if she puts her hand near you than move closer but dont go for it. if she is interested she will lower her hand and open it. slide your hand over and gently intertwine fingers. maintain this for the rest of the movie. even if your hand starts to hurt.
i know this because i had this exact thing happen to me and no we are going out
good luck
god bless+
2006-06-30 15:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by California 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what have you got lose??
Scenario One- Ask her [out]= She will either say yes or no. You have a fifty percent chance of her saying either.
Scenario Two- Let youself [and her] stay in the dark= She will not say yes, because you haven't asked her, and neither can she say no.
Well. If you don't ask her, it's a definate no. While if you come out and ask her if she likes you or whatever, you don't know what could happen. If you don't want to ruin your friendship, then make that clear before you tell her how you feel or ask her out.
Like, for example; [you say]: I don't really know how to say this, but if you don't [you can make up this part].I just want us to stay cool with our present relationship. (Or something along those lines, I'm not good at coming up with things really quickly.
[You say] whatever you feel, or need to say.
Good luck, and I hope things turn out all right. I think that if she is your friend, then even if she feels uncomfortable for a while, she will respect you and might come around in her own time.
Hold tight and I wish you luck again.
2006-06-30 22:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by lyric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this girl, and shes been my friend for like 4 years, and I told her that I liked her before, which was about a year ago, then just recently my best friend told her that I still had a crush on her. Now she is like kinda ignoring me or something because she loves me like a brother. So to help answer your question, if she has only been a friend for like 3-4 months, you should let her know, if you have been friends longer than a year, just make sure that when you do ask her, that you have a back up plan to fall back onto if something goes wrong, like if she says, " oh we're just really good friends" then tell her, ya but I would like to spend even more time with you and get to know you better and then ask her out. If she still ignores you then its her problem bro. not yours.
2006-06-30 22:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Most) girls like the game... we are teases and we want to see how hard you will work to get to us... If you are mature and think you can do it, just confront her- tell her you would like to see if there could be more past a freindship but you dont want to ruin what you already have. I like an honest guy and I would think that other girls do too... You have nothing to loose by being a true gentleman and doing it the grwon up way! Good luck!
2006-06-30 22:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go ahead and do it anyways because if you don't you will never know if she liked you or not. The friendship should not be ruined.
2006-06-30 22:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by organicchem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some balls, love isn't about always playing it safe. You have to take the risk of getting rejected or that your friendship might be awkward after that.
2006-06-30 22:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your friend to see if she likes you like without making it obvious and if she says no then say hah I'm just going around to all the girls to see if anyone likes him.
2006-06-30 22:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not confident enough. den der will b a person like me comin in between u n her so its better now or never talk with confident or wait n watch to loose to competition.
2006-06-30 22:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in for it. dont be a chicken..asking someone out wont ruin your friendship
2006-06-30 22:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Metal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT! She might like you. Don't be afraid. Just grab hold of your nutsack and hope she doesn't say no.
2006-07-02 06:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋