2006-06-30 14:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by anthony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your in love-u get those funny feelings in your tummy when their names mentioned, the thought of something happening to them makes you physically sick, loads of different feelings...but mainly nervousness! You bonk every chance you get, do all the fun daring stuff possible...a relationship that thrives on spontanious, on the spot decisions!
After a while, a lot of people dont have time to do all the stuff they used to do together! Might be since you've had kids or other commitments together there just isn't time the way there was before?! Eventually you take each other for granted, become a habit to each other, things start to pi$s you off in the relationship, you argue, but still love each other!
You dont have to be 'in love' so the relationship works.....for most people, the staying in love bit wears off and what you should eventually feel is love & respect for the person you maintained you were in love with at the start!
If you asked 50 couples that have been together for say, 10years, if they were in love or if they love & respect their other half...im sure you would have more saying they love & respect each other?!
p.s Only a man could have asked a question like this!!! hahaha
2006-06-30 16:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ur no longer in love when u dont get mad when they do something wrong or call u or even come to see you. when u start to lose interest in everything that they do. ur not in love with them if u begin to think about somebody else or if ur heart just grows cold for that person. but the main thing is ur asking this question and if u was still in love then that wont have ever been brought to ur attention. just sit back and think about it
2006-06-30 22:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you remember that special feeling that you had when you fell in love? In my case, it was when all the things i loved in life seemed just a little sweeter. When that feeling is gone, you are no longer in love with them. When it seems like, instead of a blessing, they are nothing more than a burden. Every time you are with them, you can not wait for the time to end, you just don't feel like you want to deal with them. You start to find yourself caring less and less about their needs/wants/desires, and you find yourself no longer caring whether or not things work out between the two of you, and you even find that you don't want to put in very much work/effort to make things work. Most importantly, i believe, is when your heart tells you that they are no longer someone who you love..............good luck and let me know how things turn out for you. God bless.
2006-06-30 22:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you lose that warm, funny feeling in your loins, then you're no longer in love...
2006-06-30 22:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have to ask yourself that question, then its usually the answer. if you were still in love then it would not even cross your mind to ask.
2006-06-30 22:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself Tony, the answer is not here.
2006-06-30 22:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it doesnt bother you whether you see them, talk to them, or even wonder what they are doing.....in other words, they have no effect on you .
2006-06-30 22:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they no longer care what you want or need.
2006-06-30 22:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont get the stiffness when you see them naked
2006-06-30 22:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you ask that question.
2006-06-30 22:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Burnsie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋