yeah baby i love you constantly & then the next day its over &then back to verbally & physcially abusing us. why do guys keep playing with us like yo yo's then. & then back to ILOVE YOU! thats why we stay cause u keep lying 2 us-and then u have the never 2 call us stupid! U GUYS MANIPULATE US BACK & FORTH..ILOVE YOU BLAH, BLAH. Why do you guys hate us but constantly say you love us then when you are using us?
2006-06-30 14:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by star4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys use girls like a rock god uses his axe up on stage because girls allow it. You heard the hype and the spin. Hate the game and the rules but.......they are the rules. Women(back when they were ladies)were looked up to and held with a higher regard. that is why you stood when a lady entered, you held her chair, opened the door for her. She was the Ferrari to the men's Ford. You didn't just treat her with the commonality as you would a toaster or a vacuum. She was a prize to be won, not a commodity to be utilized. She was suppose to be more wise in relationships going for the things most important to the heart and the family. She WAS the anchor to the family. No man could run a successful household with out a very strong woman anchoring it. More was expected of women. Now all that is expected of them it to get in the bedroom, take off the clothes, shut up, and take a cab home, "I'll call you" so lose my number. Girls today get dogged out because they no longer wanted to shoot for the 'A' because they wanted to be like the boys who no one expected to get pass a "C-". Todays girl want to seem above the purely physical booty call, but at the same time holding on to thier higher standing that society has placed on them. Because if they went after the booty call just as a man. They would be considered a whore. So, to delude themselves into thinking it is more than just a booty call, they say they are flying to the sheets because they really love the guy(or he told them so they believe it more). Saddly most women can not tell the difference between tall timber and small brush. Look at it this way. If you went to the gas pump and everytime you filled up. The clerk told you there was no charge. Would you go anywhere else? As long as a girl keeps buying the "I am sorry, I love you" line, then having make up sex. Why would he not keep coming back?
2006-06-30 16:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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Not ALL guys do as you said. Most guys are fine.
You may be a tender heart, and act like you are really vunerable to poor treatment.
You should ask yourself NOT why a guy treats you poorly, that's on him
but ask yourself why you continue to select guys who do that.
It is not your fault when a guy lies or misrepresents himself.
It is your naevity when you STAY after you've figured out he deceived you.
If you keep picking the same kind of guy that does this you really need to fix why you do that.
Here are links to help you out.
Notice the one with the WHEEL that describes just all you said.
Then notice the link by Robert Burney as to why you fall for this treatment.
Take this seriously, because you need to get a grip on this for your own self.
Here is the info you need:
Cycle of abuse link:
http://www.lilaclane.com/relationships/emotional-abuse/
Why women stay link:
http://harmoniaonline.com/Articles/WhyWomenStay.html
Co-dependence:
http://67.120.246.148/relationship/columnists/burney/codependency/codependent3.asp
I recommend you read the additional articles online by this author.
I highly recommend you purchase the book by Robert Burney
I wish you real love
stw
2006-06-30 22:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
modonna girls manipulate these days. usually find them in situation involved with married men. so u can expect him to rather than lie 2 ya. dat is how u can b in a situation 2 b called stupid.
2006-06-30 22:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea well i aint like that first of all lol and u should just back off on relationships for a while so u can have some space then if ur ready then u can have a bf or something
2006-06-30 22:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen
2006-06-30 22:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Amy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think you're stupid because you're acting stupid. They know what they're doing. They think you're stupid for letting them do it to you.
But, not ALL guys are like that....
2006-06-30 22:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Perfect Alien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
person who say i love you it does not mean nothing if he doing things like try to understanding , showing real love that's love
he is not stupid he really love you
2006-06-30 22:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU LET THEM BACK IN.... stop being pathetic and get some self respect... you find that when you grow up
2006-06-30 22:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because alot of ppl are afraid of change. having to find someone else
2006-06-30 22:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become les then
2006-06-30 22:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Catchinbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋