Ok... So I met this guy... on monday.. my friends were finding a place to get high.. and we ended up at his house... so... him and I flirted.. he's 21 i'm 17... and I went back the next day to hang with him and one of my friends... we hung till late and i went back again the next day... so... we'd known each other for 3 days... he asked me out.. and now I'm his girlfriend... do you think this is too fast?
2006-06-30 14:53:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... FYI... I'm not letting it get sexual... so you can all stop worrying about that...
Thanks lots though
2006-06-30 15:01:20 · update #1
Plus... He's actually a gentle man...all of us went to the store... and I was about to climb in to his truck... but... he came around to open the door and yelled at his friend for not doing it in the first place...
2006-06-30 15:06:34 · update #2
NA it's cool.. you should be ok
2006-06-30 14:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by La_La_Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what horse power you are running on. But you need to drive under 55 for now. It been three days, since you first met the dude. Did you least got to know what his name was ? Dick, Tom, or Harry ?
Three days and now your his gf. Come on, you barely know the man. Much less what ya'll have in common yet. You need to know him more, keep talking to him. He could have a background so bad, that even Mr. Clean couldn't wash it off.
You don't know if he beats on women, or if he steals for a living.
Just slow down and find some things about him.
He might even have some sexual disease on him. Iam not trying to be your parents, but you need to be careful. your not playing with a full deck here. He could be someone, that you can't get rid of later on.
Just don't think he be alright, cause he all hot and cute. Even cute guys got something to hide.
2006-06-30 15:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if u really have feelings for him and if thats a yes then no, its not going to fast but just to let u know i did the samething as him and the girl said no maybe next time and i didnt mind but the next day she went out with her ex so i missed my chance once again lol maybe i should stop now before i make an essay lol well if u like him then its not going to fast but tell the guy to wait atleast a week more so u can get to know im better or something
2006-06-30 14:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable with it and it feels okay then there shouldn't be any problem. But then I'm still trying to figure out all the dating does and don't ... Always trust your first instincts. If you think its moving too fast than slow it down a notch or two. If it feels right ... the move forward with your eyes OPEN.
2006-06-30 14:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahah.
Girlfriend after 3 days? You two must be high off your bloody arses.
Yes. That is too fast. The "infatuation phase" generally lasts a month or two. And you're already in a relationship after 3 days.
That's dumb.
2006-06-30 14:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't tell u if you are moving too fast. I have been through the same thing. I meet this guy and he called me the same day I met him and asked me to be his girl. It worked out pretty well but I can't say it can happen for everybody.
2006-06-30 14:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too fast but when he start tellin you he luvs u within 2 weeks of dating it's now gettin to the point that he's goin too fast and this tell u that the relationship won't last. My boyfriend started tellin' me he loved me during the 1 year of our anniversary and i said it bac because we knew we wern't movin 2 fast. But when my ex-boyfriend told me he loved me during one week of us datin it was over two days after cause i caught him cheatin on me with my best friend.
2006-06-30 15:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Adanna N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This pace is fine, just as long as tomarrow you are not jumping into bed with him.
(side note: I would advise that you not mention getting high in anymore questions, doesn't really help your story at all)
2006-06-30 15:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by Kay Eliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little quick but you never know it just might work out. Just be careful not to get pregnant anytime soon.
2006-06-30 15:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by a_rose7073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man ya'll are so cool going to get high, how can we all be cool like you and your friends? You must be real proud of yourself!
2006-06-30 14:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by silverblack12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slow down alittle. try to give yrself some space between seeing him. ppl tend to rush in and get bored fast once they know each other to well
2006-06-30 14:56:13 · answer #11 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋