When can I ever find my true love?

Question

I've had great relationships, but not one of the guys I was with appreciated me and ended up cheating on me. I don't know how to let my last break-up go because it's hard.

Answer 1

Honey get on with your life find a passion that just is about you and you being proud of yourself and who you are...and then sit back and watch true love find you...and in the mean time im sure you'll break...if you haven't already...a few hearts yourself...and they are thinking the same about you...

Answer 2

You can't choose who'll be your true love in an instant, it could be someone you know's friend, or someone you're close to know, but not feel the connection yet. Letting go is hard, I know its somewhat irrelevant, but I fell in love three years ago, and the guy died a month later in a car accident, I didn't let go till this year. It'll hurt, yes. But prove to your ex, that you are strong, by letting go. Your true love will come around when the time comes, but for now, enjoy life and have some fun.

Answer 3

I think that trying to find true love will drive you mad. Just relax in relationships and true love will find you. If you work too hard in a relationship it shows and usually ppl will feel like they can do anything ie cheat. You will know when the right one comes along.

Answer 4

Yes it is hard to get over a break up. Remember that it takes time to get over someone. No one can tell you when you will find true love. So I hope the best for you.

Answer 5

You will find your true love whenever it is deemed by destiny for you to be with that person. I, too, have had great relationships, but not with girls who appreciated me. Presently, i am engaged to a woman who does not truly appreciate/respect me, but i love her and can not imagine my life without her. She does not cheat on me, she just........hurts me. But, i found her when the time was right. Same shall prove to be for you; you will find "the one'' when the time is right.

Answer 6

it's really hard but trust me its hard living with knowing what happened. My husband didn't cheat he accidently three wayed me pretending the his call was lost with mine. And i herd him talking to some girl telling her that he wanted to talk to her and that he was waiting outside her house and i called back and in less then 5 min he was at my house again. But now it's so hard to moved pass that and i can't trust him it's really hard.

Answer 7

we all learn by our mistakes in life. through each relationship we learn more about what things went wrong and try to make it better in the next. you ll find someone one day and wont give this a second thought

Answer 8

with time all things pass

Here are some ideas for how to GET a great girlfriend:

1) Realize that attractive, intelligent, amazing women are IN DEMAND. They are RARE. (I believe that a man who has his life together and understands women and attraction is FAR RARER, but that's a different conversation.)

2) Because these women are rare and in demand, they usually have a lot of EXPERIENCE with men. And guess what? MEN ARE VERY PREDICTABLE. Men usually ask women out in one of a few PREDICTABLE ways... and they usually act one of a few PREDICTABLE ways on dates... and they usually respond in one of a few PREDICTABLE ways after the date... etc.

3) When it comes to the unusually attractive, desirable women, they have usually had a LOT of men who have "fallen" for them "too quickly". In other words, when they meet a guy who falls for them quickly, they RECOGNIZE it instantly, and RESPOND to it by RUNNING away.

4) If you want to get one of these desirable women to consider a RELATIONSHIP with you, you need to NOT act like one of the other 100 boring guys she's gone out with.

5) It is VITALLY important that you learn everything you can about women and dating before you go looking for a long-term relationship with a fantastic woman. Of course, I recommend my eBook and other advanced materials for this. You won't find a better education anywhere on this topic, and what you'll learn from me will definitely help you get your "game" together in this area. If you can't afford to get my materials right now, just keep reading these newsletters religiously. They're jam packed with great information, and they'll help you tremendously. The point is that you have to KEEP WORKING on it. Don't just learn a few things and think "OK, I've got it".

6) You must give an unusually attractive woman SPACE. You can't call her every day, tell her that you're in love with her two days after you've met her, chase her around, always ask what she's doing, etc. You must give this special woman THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.

7) When you're in her presence, you must not treat her like you desperately want and need her approval. There's a way to do ANYTHING and have it mean ANYTHING. Whatever you do, don't try to "impress" her, act apologetic for anything about yourself, or otherwise give away your personal POWER. EVER.

8) If you have a life, stay with it. If you don't have a life, get one. Don't sit around wondering what she's doing, calling her, telling her how you "feel", etc. If she wanted another "girlfriend", she'd get one. So don't act like one. Desirable women want men who are INDEPENDENT, and who give them SPACE. In fact, if anything, you need to give a woman like this TOO MUCH space. You want HER to be the one who is calling YOU to figure out what you're up to.

9) If you sense that this woman is "testing" you by being difficult, trying to change plans with you on short notice all the time, etc. then RELAX. Lean back. Never let her "get away" with anything just because she's beautiful, or let her have any "special privileges" because you like her. NEVER.

10) If you want a long-term relationship, let it DEVELOP over time. I personally don't think it's a good idea to even CONSIDER having a relationship with a woman until you have known her for a MINIMUM of 90 days. MINIMUM! If you take this mindset, it will FORCE you to chill out and let things develop over time, instead of trying to "force" them. You'll be VERY different from the other guys she's dated, and you'll find that SHE starts letting the "I have special feelings for you" talk slip out.


I'm suggesting a way of thinking, behaving, and communicating that is VERY different from the way most men think, behave, and communicate.

hope this helps

Answer 9

In general when we don't find it's because we don't search in the good way or at the right place... See what I mean??

Answer 10

you will find your true love in 157 days 12 hours 8 mins...let me know if that really happens