We have already adopted 2 girls and a boy.We can't decide if we should adopt the 2 twin boys or the boy and girl which are also twins. Our son Logan wants us to adopt the 2 boys.His twin sis Lindsy and their little sis Zoey want to adopt the boy and girl.We have no idea we love kids and we deffintly want at least 1 boy for Logan to play with.
2006-06-30 14:47:57 · 16 answers · asked by **Lizz** ♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You should adopt the children that need you the most.
Let God decide his are always the best decisions.
My opinion. If you go this route you cannot go wrong and will always
be taken care of.
2006-06-30 14:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by eg_ansel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should adopt 2 twin boys for you son and 1 little girl for the girls or get triplets or tell your 2 daughters that the next time mommy and Daddy wants more children that you will get them a sister so that will make it even 3 boys and 3 girls!!!!!! Good luck on what ever you choose but make sure little Logan gets a brother or 2!!!!
2006-06-30 15:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say adopt the ones you want, they will be your kids and you will have to live with them the rest of your lives, but sounds like you are just plain stalemated on who to adopt. So, my opinion is to adopt the boy and girl. Mainly for the fact that there would be less rough-housing. Also, you don't want the two boys to have to feel like they need to compete for Logan's attention; or like the have to try to be the 'favorite' brother. Just to throw it out there, though, getting the two boys would prolly incur less clothes/makeup costs than having three girls! Well for sure on the makeup, but probably on the clothes. I don't know if that would be a factor. I think, the needing to compete would be a bigger factor. Good luck!
2006-06-30 15:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by just a girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should get a boy and a girl, because the boy can go with your husband and you can have the girl. - like spend time and stuff. Like so you can be close to them and let them tell anything to you. But if you adopt two boys it would be a real hassle, you'd have eyebags and a dark circle for sure!
2006-06-30 14:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by lil_kor3an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be grateful at the opportunity to adopt twins anyways, their gender should not be your priority. It sounds to me like you've come see adopting as 'going shopping for children' were you can pick and choose whatever child you want. That's just wrong. Be grateful for what you have and just hope for a healthy baby or two.
2006-06-30 16:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by AuroraBorealis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it a boy and a boy will fight rough but a girl and a boy will not be as rough to each other as two boys would and plus the girl would have so much fun with Lindsay and the Boy would have so much fun with Logan
2006-06-30 14:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by mysterious_women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girl and boy.
This is a bit odd, but do you by any chance watch Law & Order SVU? There were twins, Logan and Lindsay, and they were a bit messed up... never mind.
2006-06-30 14:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the sprint on the top meant to be the nn for the girl? if so, i like Olivia (Livi) and Aiden, yet not one of the combinations. Josephine, Martha, Arthur, and Joseph are gruesome names. i'm incredibly specific while you're giving them away (which this tale seems exceptionally not likely considering they are 13 weeks old), the hot mom and father will probable opt to call them.
2016-12-08 14:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a boy and a girl...im a girl with a twin brother...having a boy and a girl makes for less competition between the two and would allow them to be more unique and special. :D
2006-06-30 14:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Leroy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry so much about the sex of the babies as I would which child needs a home more desperately (i.e. which one has been in an orphanage or foster care longer? Which ones are older?, etc.)
2006-06-30 15:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋