Why does it bother people if you are gay?

Question

I'm not gay, but I am bi sexual. I have always wondered the true reason behind this. Is it because they have an unsecurity with themselves. Any one give me one good reason, and for once don't bring in what the bible has to say. Tell me what you think, not what someone else wrote.

Well I can't even say that I am bi becuase I have never been with another girl but I'm curious. My main question was just why does it bother people so much. Also I'm a girl.

Answer 1

You are not the problem, the people that don't like gay people are the problem. It is no ones business what others do, as long as no one is getting hurt and no one is here. Love knows no boundaries. love knows no color, race or sex, it only knows love. To hell with the homophobes, you live your life as you want to, and with whom ever you want. Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are.

Answer 2

Because God created us in such a way that the male and female body fit together for procreation. He didn't make us so that men lie with men or women lie with women. Two men cannot produce a baby. Two women cannot produce a baby. We all have choices about how we act sexually. What God wants for us is to only have sex within the bonds of marriage between a husband and wife. Not 2 men. Not 2 women. No threesomes. Just husband and wife. He gave us sex as the most wonderful and intimate expression of love between a husband and wife. Not as some casual hook up between acquaintances or strangers or between people of the same sex.

Answer 3

I think that society today really puts to much emphasis on people who are gay. No one has the right to cast judgement and or condemn. Only GOD has the right to do that.
Each one of us has to be accountable for our actions. I don't treat a gay any different than a straight person. I treat others the way I'd want to b e treated, regardless of sexual preference, race, religion etc.
To answer your question, I don't think that it has to do with insecurities at all. I think that it's just the way society has looked at it from the beginning of time.

Answer 4

There all a lot of things that have been written and people have a choice to believe it or not. I was brought up, well when I was older that it was not right.When I was young I never heard of bi's,and Queer was the word I first heard not gay.So that's why I think the way I do.Like it or not.It sure as hell isn't because I'm insecure with myself.I'm not and if I was it wouldn't have anything to do with you or others like you.

Answer 5

if they are just "polluting the society" as you say, and shouldn't exist, what about the old people? they aren't good for anything anymore. and sterile and infertile people can't reproduce, so heaven forbid they get married. the insane! ah yes the insane. we certainly have no use for them. think of all the money being wasted on them in medical costs! why, we should just get rid of them all!

I am of course being sarcastic.

I see absolutely no reason why two women or two men could not be happy together. they are consenting adults, hurting no one. They cannot change how they feel. Why would you choose to forever be outcasted by society? It is not a choice. you are born with it and it is ok to be gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, asexual, whatever. I don't care who you love, and I can't see why people won't mind their own business. As for kids living with them, without a mother or father figure, what about kids in single parent households? We seem to be coming out ok.

Answer 6

It sure as heck don't bother me! I'm straight and married, with kids. I like being straight, you like being bi, and some people don't like sex at all. The best answer I can give you is advice: Live your life the way YOU want to, and don't give a darn about what anyone else thinks!

Answer 7

You are bi-sexual but not gay. So, you are half-gay, but not whole gay. Okay-You are also a liar. You smoke pot, but you don't inhale-like Bill Clinton.
I think you are really confused. You really need to get help or join the Army, and volunteer for Iraq. There are some decent men over there that need to come home.

Answer 8

It doesn't bother everyone. Some people are bothered by it because they are homophobic, and they need to get over that by realizing that not everyone is the same as they are, and that everyone has a right to live their life the way they want to (as long as it doesn't infringe on the rights of anyone else), free from discrimination.

Answer 9

I will answer your question with a question. If you don't want to be treated differently, why do you introduce yourself by pointing out your differences.

I mean, you gotta give this much, straight people don't introduce themselves by saying "Hi, my name is Jim, and I like girls" He just says "Hi my name is Jim" anything else you find out about him takes some time and effort.

Take a hint. Only the people you want to have sex with need to know your sexual preferences.

Peace.

Answer 10

Let it bother the people it bothers. Let it be ok with the others. Some straight people bother other straight people too. Let life run it's coarse. I'm straight and I just say what ever floats your boat. I don't see any other way for me. Why would I want to add that kind of social stress to my life.