Would you save a internet dating person from jail in another country?

Question

I have been dating a man for 8 months from india and this is real i have all the documents from his work and pictures of his house and him. I sent him a package to his country, they opend it up and now they are not please he is dating a american. So they put him in jail for 6 months he just had his trial,

They have taken away his PHD college schooking he only had 6months to go to granduate,
They took away his service job and his millitary job after 16yrs they are also taking away his pention and his housing they have given him for / wife and family but he never was given a wife. so he has no kids.

would you help him to come to america. he is now going to be killed in just a few months after the hearing is all over... or they say he is going to be put on the streets homless..

he told the judge i love this american women i have two hands i can work for my food and shelter. but i will not admitt to a crime of love. so i would reather die in knowing i loved her?

No, this man is not asking for anything from me and yes we are in love very much, i have never had a man touch and see my heart untill this india man thy are so respectful, and kind, he has done everything to be with me, even lose his career, his house his College, and now he is working with his hands in odd jobs to get enough money up to come to the USA to go back to school finish his phd and then make a life with me. But ?? we will see what hapens after all this cort stuff..

sometimes you do find love in the stranges places. all becouse I asked god to bring me a soulmate of his choice anywere in the world. well he did this, but the other man has to give up his world for me.. that my children is love. at first hand. what whould you sacrafise for love.?

Yes it is right know this week july 2006, it has been going on since Febuary when his boss got notification of me when i sent a package too him. they opended it and looked at all my home movies and then, went though all his privit stuff, at home and work, they even forced him to give him his e-mail and they read all my letters.??

Fokes this is a real live love story going on right know with me.. it is not easy i will tell you that.

so women if you are talkin to other countrys on dating sites be carful someone else might be reading your privit letter you are writing.. so be careful what you send to them or write. It just might get that man place in jail.. or a bootcamp for 6months.. It's been rough.. I even though he found another women but since i got his letter a few weeks ago expling an all the proof of the cort papers.. this was real.. I was blown away.. So becareful..

Answer 1

1) To the best of my knowledge, there is no such law in India that prohibits one from marrying an American. In fact, considering that Inida was a British colony, there are quite a few British people living there. Several of those British people are married with the Indians there.
2) That person said he has received the package that you sent him? Did he take any pictures of him holding some of the things that you sent him? Reason I ask this is, I have heard of many internet romance scams that sound like what you are describing. Please check out http://www.anti-scam.org for more details. This site has a long list of scammers and their names. Please make sure that his name is not on the list.
3) How can you bring him over to the America though? Do you plan on bringing him over with a fiance visa? If so, you would need to be there too because the US government won't grant him anything if you are not there with him. And also, granting a visa takes time; judging by the urgency of his case (according to you, he is going to be killed in just a few months), you may want to contact the US embassy in India to get involved. And also, you will probably need to go to India yourself to meet with the ambassador and the Indian guy yourself to work things out.

Answer 2

Start a website, ask for support monetarily, and get a P.O. Box where they can send support to.

Spread the word.

I should tell you though that these situations are as tricky as Muslims who go on trial with the penalty of Death for converting to Christianity.

I feel for you, but it is also my opinion that you guys are treading. If he has the chance to start his life back up in India, you may need to let him do that.

Blessings,
Cheryl

Answer 3

No offense but you are full of it. There's no way that this is happening to a guy in India merely for dating an American. Either you are lying or he has actually done something else to warrant prosecution. So you can just go away or take heed that you are being duped.

Answer 4

i know many people in india. they can date anyone they want. depending on what you sent in the package, some countries consider some items illegal. you stated you have seen photo's and paperwork and its for real. its nor as there are many scams out of india and other countries using single sites to get money, get to america and get married. they are all illegal. i investigate scams from countries everyday. i have gotten actual phone numbers and called talking to the people only to discover the scam as it goes along. you have a better chance at winning the lottery than getting the real info. they use photo's of beautiful women to get the guys and vis-versa. they will give you numbers in that country and places that are real to keep you going. you claim after the trial, he will get killed or become homeless they say. who said that to you? other countries as strict as they are would do one or the other. your in a scam and no i would never bring them over unless i met them by going there to check them out.

Answer 5

you met him online never met him and you are in love??

sure uh huh... and let me guess he wants you to send him $$ so he can come here? SCAM ...good lord people, you can create documents, pictures, anything if you're willing to take the time..

Send him the $$ or whatever but don't whine on here when you never hear from him again after HANDING him $$.

Answer 6

What?! Are you going to send him money? Are you looking for donations? Lady - if you are for real, you're either a very bad con-artist, or you fell for a very bad con-artist. Either way, they ain't gonna kill this guy for going with an American - this is one of the most ridiculous ones I have ever seen. Please tell me it's a joke! It is, right?!

Answer 7

Any relationship is a danger, whether or not it is from the ukraine or down the street. My best situation is that she may just need a way into the states, and marrying an american would furnish her the in.

Answer 8

That sound like a big scam, I never hear a history like that is ridiculous, I don't believe sorry if you believe in these history.

Answer 9

any courting is a hazard, if it is from the ukraine or down the avenue. my most effective crisis is that she would possibly desire some way into the states, and marrying an american could furnish her the in.

Answer 10

This has to be a joke.If not(and this is just in case)get in touch with a humanitarian group.geeez.