don't be such a toad
2006-06-30 14:29:17
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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you can't be scared to look for one but you can't just get hooked up with the first thing that comes along if your young you have time to pick and choose a boyfriend, but if you are around 24 or 25 then the best advise i can give is to find you a guy friend that you enjoy doing things with and as time goes on the friendship will develop into more
2006-06-30 21:29:54
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answer #2
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answered by anthony w 1
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Be his friend first. A great listener and assertiveness on your part can speed the process along. Be a catch not a carp. Shawty.
2006-06-30 21:28:58
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answer #3
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answered by poeticmn91271 1
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i know this question is for the guys, but i thought this might help you. good luck home girl.
1) KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.
This is really important, because once you get a boyfriend you actually have to spend time with him! That can be a huge drag if he doesn't have the right qualities to make you happy. Make a list of qualities that your ideal boyfriend should have, such as intelligence, looks, sense of humor, a passion for music, or respect for other people's feelings.
2) BE READY TO LOVE A NEW GUY.
Do a self-check and make sure you are over old hurts and disappoinments in love. You're ready for a new relationship if you can put aside any grudges or crushes on old boyfriends, so you're ready to move on.
3) PUT YOUR BEST SELF FORWARD.
Attract the type of guy you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying negative qualities. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally. For example, if you don't like your flat chest but your thighs are nice and muscular, show off your best assets in cute minis that focus attention on legs. Another example: if you're not an Einstein at math but you are a caring type of person, go out of your way to be helpful to others and let that compassion shine.
4) HAVE A LIFE OF YOUR OWN.
Boys can sense when a girl is desperate for a boyfriend, and it makes them run in the other direction. Bottom line: boys want to hook up with girls who seem like they don't need a boyfriend to have a good time. If you appear to be happy, fun to be around and confident in yourself, guys will take a second look at you. Yes, boys like good looking girls, but beauty only gets you so far. Most boys with any dating experience know that it's better to date a fun and interesting regular chick, than a boring beauty queen.
5) TAKE A SECOND LOOK.
Consider any unattached guys at your school or work, or even the sons of your parents' friends. Maybe you think you're already considered everyone, but think again and really keep your mind open about guys you already know. Do any of them have the qualities that you want in a boyfriend?
6) GET INVOLVED.
One of the best ways to meet new guys - and to get to know them better - is to get involved in school activities. Find out what's offered at your school, such as clubs, teams, sports and other after-school activities. Join activities that you enjoy or that you are sincerely interested in, so you meet people with similar interests. From soccer to drama to yearbook, most schools offer many opportunities for teens to get involved. This can be an amazing way to meet new guys, expand your horizons and widen your circle of friends at the same time.
7) WHEN YOU'RE INTERESTED, SEND A MESSAGE.
If you have your eye on a certain guy, let mutual friends know about your interest in him. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell him about your crush.
8) FLIRT.
Flirting really is a girl's best friend. Once you've set your sights on a cutie, take things to the next step by learning to attract his attention with flirting. This can help you become friendly with him, and you can learn to send the subtle signal that you're interested in becoming more than just friends. Get Jellybean's best flirting tips in her Flirting Guide: CLICK HERE.
9) TRY THE DIRECT APPROACH.
For bold girls, sometimes the direct approach applies. This doesn't mean walking up to your crush and saying "I like you, wanna go out?" which is highly risky and could backfire. Instead, be bold in the right setting, such as asking your crush to dance to a slow song at the school dance, or telling him you had a dream that you two were a couple and it was soooo sweet. His reaction will let you know if he's interested!
10) KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN.
Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open wherever you are and learn to look beneath the surface of guys. Remember, the right guy for you is somewhere out there, and he's looking for you too!
2006-06-30 21:31:25
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answer #4
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answered by Selena Jade's Mommy 4
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if you need a boy friend you need to see his face and his heart. you have to ask who is he to yourself. if you find your boyfriend make sure he loves you and you love him. do you know what's love? if you don't think about it. if you don't have a boyfriend dont say help me boys i need a boyfriend.if you don't have boyfriend they don't likes you. if you need a boyfriend you have to be yourself.
2006-06-30 21:31:38
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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NEVER ever be desprite. That turns me off to the max. It happens way to fricking much too... Be your self and dress really cute... That's what I like.
2006-06-30 21:28:28
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answered by Lord Rupert Everton 3
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Always look your best. Dont act dumb. Hang around with guys. Get to know them. Trust me, they will ask you out sooner or later.
2006-06-30 21:27:48
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answer #7
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answered by Bobesink 3
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Very simple, get noticed by noticing someone. look at guys in the eyes, be brave and look pleasant, smile very minutely, then take away. look back and take away once more. eye language for 'you want to talk to me?'... make sure he sees you do this though. try it.
2006-06-30 21:36:48
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answer #8
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answered by mimosopher 2
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find a guy be friends with him and there u go
2006-06-30 21:29:17
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answer #9
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answered by josh 2
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well, dont worry, try to be yourself, and dont beleave what other people say, just try to be more funny, and always be urself, ok
2006-06-30 21:30:00
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answer #10
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answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3
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seem to be a player or cheapstake of no morals.
2006-06-30 21:29:07
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answer #11
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answered by firewall 5
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