My boyfriend Rob and i were on the phone yesterday and i was joking arround and said "oh no you dont love me anymore!" We went through the yes i do, no you dont thing and the he said ok i dont.he swore that it was a joke but i dont know, i really like him so i dont want it to end this way.
2006-06-30 14:18:57 · 23 answers · asked by Jessy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then why don't you sit down with him and say "remember the other day when......" and just put it out there for him. You don't really really know unless you ask! Communication is a huge factor in any relationship and if you like him, well then, talk about it!
2006-06-30 14:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he is no fun... but i do not really know if it is a joke or not.. if he continues to call you and you all keep your friendship up then good....how old are you two anyway.. love is a real strong word and a lot of people use it to freely and really do not love at all.. they may be a great attraction there but that does not mean it is love... so really think about this.. i cannot really say more because i do not know how old you are and how much experience in life you have had.. but hope this helps you some anyway
2006-06-30 14:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you may be reading into it too much? I am sure if he didn't love you, you wouldn't still be together. Stay aloof. One reason men complain about us women is that we are crazy. Us women we tend to do a lot of thinking. Here's a classic example of a story from one of my husband's favorite books... "After sex, Marsha laid next to her husband with one arm around his chest and her head resting on his shoulder. She was thinking that he was too quiet and she thought maybe something was wrong. Maybe he didn't enjoy it. Roger, her husband, on the other hand was thinking... How many months it has it been since I had my last oil change." So really... That's how men think, very simple-minded, when we are always thinking the worst.
2006-06-30 14:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar_Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him about it and say I just wanted to make sure cause I got really confused with all that yes I do no I don't thing.
2006-06-30 14:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by daredevil_girl013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make someone say i love u. its comes out. he was joking. every person says i love u to other but u know if he does when its a special thing thats goin on and/or doesnt care when and where he says it
2006-06-30 14:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by M.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a joke cuz if ya went through yes i do and no u dont thing. then it is a joke
2006-06-30 14:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkshorty_9595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say joke. You guys were doing it back and forth and he just gave in. Hell, I tell my boyfriend I hate him when he aggravates me, but I love him more than anything.
2006-06-30 14:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want him to say that, then dont put him in that situation. You asked for it and you got it. If he says it wasnt true, shut your whiny yap and move on.
2006-06-30 14:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its real and i u don't feel that way well then confront him and ask him do u still love me and take what he answers and keep it all to yer self unless u want to share it but plz feel free to email me if u want to talk
2006-06-30 14:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOKE! This was just a silly little game.
2006-06-30 14:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋