What i mean by this is, how would you dress, behave, and talk to other people around a man that you were interested in? Thanks for the answers.
2006-06-30 13:55:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'd wear something sexy, for one thing. But I don't mean sexy/trashy. I mean sexy/feminine... soft-sexy. I do think there's a difference. Sexy/trashy definitely has its place, but it's not for when you're first gettin a man's attention. That's the time to be more ladylike... demure and mysterious.
I like clothes that let people know I'm feminine and a woman. That means shape/cut, as well as the fact that I love dresses and skirts. So for me, dressing "nice" or "sexy" doesn't really go outside of "being myself"... cause I just happen to enjoy dressing that way.
But what exact kinda outfit I'd choose really depends on the setting. For instance, I wouldn't dress the same way to go to the club or hang out... as I would dress to go to church or work. And not to hang on the clothes subject for too long, but I gotta mention this: I love shoes. And a great, sexy pair of shoes can make all kinds of statements...
Moving on... as far as how I'd behave, I would behave like myself. I have a lot of confidence in my own wit, charm, and personality. I'm one fun, sexy, intelligent, beautiful piece of woman. ^__^ I hope that doesn't sound cocky but... I've never had a problem getting attention/interest from the kind of guys I like.
Mainly I just make him feel comfortable by letting myself be vulnerable and open. It works wonders. They'll open right up to a fun woman with a tender heart. And the men I like (i.e. not game-players) are totally refreshed by someone who's open, honest, and loving. Well that's my .25 ^__^
2006-06-30 18:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it's natural for us women to dress "better" when we're going to meet/see a guy we like. But remember that better doesn't necessarily mean sexier. :D With regards to how we act around them... there's really no much change. But we may either be more quiet or a bit noiser. We may pay more OR less attention to you. It's different for every girl-- some are more aggressive than the others. You'll notice her "likeness" eventually. Just never assume at once.
2006-06-30 21:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dazeddd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I wanted to get a man's attention, I'd dress a little prettier on days I'm seeing him.. Maybe get my hair or my nails done or wear a pretty skirt or something.. I'd smile at him and lot and casually flirt, be really nice, hope he notices!
2006-06-30 20:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by cutestuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on the person...me personally i'd talk to him often and get to know him to make sure i really like him...if i do then ill flirt with him and kind of throw hints...i'd dress the same though....i think that if women wear revealing clothes jus to show a guy that she likes him isnt very cool....
2006-06-30 20:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by @bsolutely $weet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a piece of advice, if you want to know how to get a man's attention, it would make more sense to ask a man. A lot of women are clueless even though they think they've got their man figured out.
Like one person in a similar question suggested for the woman to bring him flowers? hello? most guys that like getting flowers probably don't like women.
2006-06-30 21:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like a guy I become very flirtacious and I would ask around about him. I would also dress sexier by showing more skin and I would make sure my hair and makeup was always done when I knew he would be around.
2006-06-30 20:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was n the summer i would wear a short mini skirt and a sexy tube top w/a jacket in the winter i would wear tight jeans and a tight long sleeve button up shirt.I would act horny all the time.I would Flirt w/him,lock eyes w/him, smile, n wave!
2006-06-30 21:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just be myself and if I like them (I know this is bad) but I'll tend to avoid them because I know I'll get really shy around them..so I kinda just stay on the low and tend to keep away. But if he walks around me I'm just myself. Though if I'm talking to someone and he walks by I may throw in something really great that happened this week to get his attention..maybe.
2006-06-30 20:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by daredevil_girl013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I flirt, smile, laugh at his jokes, hug "hello" and "Good-bye", wear my sexy jeans, wink at him, and simply make sure he remembers how fun I am . Body language says it all without saying a word. Some may not agree, but I promise you men and women are very sexual creatures, and you will feel the chemistry if its there.
2006-06-30 21:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If he is going to like you then he needs to see you in all of your splendor not putting on a show. I would give a smile kind of start a little conversation and then go from there.
2006-06-30 20:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by G L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋