and every couple of months he will change his number so we can't call him and then he will call about a month after that and give some of us his number and tell us not to give it to the others and he just does it over and over the past 6 years since he moved should i still talk to him.
2006-06-30 13:34:33 · 8 answers · asked by casandra m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No........it's obvious he doesn't want anything to do with the kids.....so if I was you......I wouldn't even talk to him on the phone......why waste your time.....for empty promises? Sorry about all this.....best of luck to you........
2006-06-30 13:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can;t answer that for you. Only YOU can answer that question.
I will tell you though I had a father who lived in the same city as I did and we RARELY heard from him and by the time I was 15 I couldn;t care less about him anymore. I have not had contact or seen my father in the last 12 years.
You will have to do what feels best for you and not let anyone else influence your decision.
IT would be very easy to say NO DON:T HAVE CONTACT , but
I nor anyone else knows what is in your head or your heart.
I
best of luck to you I do know exactly how you feel
2006-06-30 14:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by gerilynn35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's is up to you, remeber not everyone is perfect even your father he is as human as you. My father and I have not spoken in over 11 years he made sure of that. He moved on with his life and made it clear that I would not be in it. I would suggest to not let it get to you, if he calls great if not you have other people in your life who care about you. Besides he probably needs you more than you him. Good Luck!! Just remeber you are an amazing person don't ever forget that. You will have people in your life that care about and some that don't do a great job of showing it. I hope this helps you in some way.
2006-06-30 13:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by vanillagerbera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has been doing this for a while so it is no surprise. If that is something you're willing to live with then so be it but if not then next time don't accept his calls and give him a taste of his own medicine but since this has been going on for such a long time he may not get the hint.
2006-06-30 13:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by G L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My younger brothers dad did this on him, more than once. It's a hard thing to walk away from but all I can say is love him, but never rely on him unless he changes his ways.
Also talk to him about how you feel, maybe there is more to it that he is not telling you, is he in trouble with the law? Sounds like he's running from something and it's not his kids.
Some states have criminal records online for public view, just got to your state government site and look around!
Good luck, and I'll be praying for you!
Kay
2006-06-30 14:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kay Eliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that only you can answer. Look into your heart and follow where it leads you.
2006-06-30 13:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by stina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your father after all.... you have to,,, if you just dont care and want to talk to him, then ust talk and dont care, but if you care what he is doing then, you have to really sit down (even if its on the phone) and talk to him about him and puir your heart out,... rither way, he is your father and he must have sacrificed alot to rear u up...
2006-06-30 13:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by noms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋