Should I end this relationship if I was always there for my girl financially and this time she cant help me.?

Question

I help everytime financially and this time i cant get no help back but she can go shopping

Answer 1

WOW! Even friends don't do that to each other. You help a friend and in due time when you need help your friend is there, to help you out. That's what a relationship does, it's a give and take.,both ways. Does your girl think she is Cinderella?

Answer 2

you need to let her know how you feel and be honest. but try not to hurt her feelings too bad. tell her that the money she spends on shopping can go towards the water or lights she uses.
(that's if she's not getting you anything). or you can split the bills in half. (either ya'll split tall of them or divide them up and pay those each month) that always works and takes extra pressure off the main payer. good luck.

Answer 3

Did you expect something back for something you did out of the kindness of your heart? If so no you don't end the relationship and does she know you need help

Answer 4

you are being used get real she has got your money and hers too I bet if you just act like you havent the money the next time she needs some you will see a diferent attitude

Answer 5

If she can't help she can't help. But if she won't help that's a different story. She's probably bad with money if you always there for her.

Answer 6

Sounds like you are a caring person, and she is selfish

Answer 7

A razor blade? Stay away from her.

Answer 8

She obviously is using you

Answer 9

yes i think that you should be lookin' for agurl who will be nice to you

Answer 10

DUH!