My boyfriend of three months asked me if i would 3some with his best (girl) friend and said no and that was the end of it. Now I find that he posted online to a (different) girl that he sometimes feels like raping her. I questioned him about it and he said it was just a joke. He cried and made a big scene and brought up my past mistakes. He also told me that he loves me and doesnt ever want to lose me. Should I break up with him?
2006-06-30 13:12:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm. I've read this story before...lived it too...a looooong time ago. Get the heck away from this guy. He loves his *!$# more than he will ever love you, darlin. RUN! And by the way...if he wants to set up a 3some with that girl, guess what, you don't have to be a doctor of psychology to know: he slept with her already. Tell him to save his tears for another fool. Run, girl, run!
2006-06-30 13:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh, i think he aint joking about the wanting to rape the other person thing, and i think he loves you, but loves the other girl too? Breaking up may not be the best thing now.. You should wait and see what he is up to for the time being, and in the meanwhile, enjoy your time together.
2006-06-30 20:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by vale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, first of all, if he can't respect your wishes, it won't get any easier. Just harder. Rape is nothing to joke about. He may have cried, but why???? Was he sorry or sorry that he was caught? You caught him and he was trying to lighten the situation by calling all of your mistakes. You know the answer. You just have to be strong and do it.
2006-06-30 20:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by dmblaise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the past is the past and he shouldn't have brought it up just to hurt you. He needs to respect your answer that you don't want to and not go behind your back talkin to another girl. He sounds kinda fake to me, he goes and does something and then makes you feel bad about it.
2006-06-30 20:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever be with him....He seems like a BIG flirt....such people could be dangerous....before its late leave him now...else he might torture u more ...and would never let u have a peaceful life with anybody....he want to be with u at the same timme cant take his eyes off or keep his mind free from other girls....Dont give him more chances to emotionally blackmail u....
He seems like a lunatic and horny person....LEAVE HIM ....ur life is precious....
2006-06-30 20:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by AB12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u make him sound like a sex addict i think u should break up with him he may love u and all but still if my BF asked me to hav a 3sum with his best (girl) friend that wud practically be the end of the relationship yes i think u shud break up wit him cuz he can't respect ur wishes
2006-06-30 20:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by basketball_4_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know if your current boyfriend my be ready for anything serious. When caught with his hand in the cookie jar, he turns it around to your past mistakes. It depends on how you truly feel about your boyfriend on whether or not you should dump him.
2006-06-30 20:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be nervous about being around this guy. Listen, he is bad news. Handsome, does drugs, about 22 years old, white, drop out? Tell me if I'm getting warm.
2006-06-30 20:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just sounds kind of perverted and if you're uncomfortable with that I don't see how a relationship could work if he doesn't stop being that way.
2006-06-30 20:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his right it was a joke give him another chance to prove to you that he loves you and if he doesn't respect you than move on
2006-06-30 20:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋