he just told me he loves me....why is he doing this? he tells me he loves me, but we never had sex, he never asked to have sex, so its not about sex. Its about something else....
I think he does love me, but i dont understand..
God will give me an answer, but id like to hear from you all..
weve been going out for 3-4 years.
2006-06-30 13:10:24 · 22 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
From the way you spoke about him in your first question, he doesn't act like he loves you. Guys will say they love you, but what matters is not what they say, but how they treat you. If he really loved you, he wouldn't treat you the way he does. (And it isn't always about sex).
2006-06-30 13:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by cj_justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do u love him to? If he loves and u love him whats the problem? He sounds a nice guy. Hes not after u for sex by the sounds of it which is good.
2006-06-30 20:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and move on.. He is playing games.. take it from experience... You will find someone who doesn't play games with you and loves and respects you for who you are. This guy sounds bi-polar.. maybe you should just let him go. He is just a guy.. the only reason that you are so attatched to him is because of how many years it has been.. I think that you are doing well by not having sex with this guy... God will send you the one that you are supposed to be with.. if this guy is mocking the Lord.. for any reason.. then he's not the one for you... believe me.. you will find someone that makes you soo happy and that you will think is soo sexy because of his closeness with God. . . Just wait.. what's the rush.. ?
2006-06-30 20:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, listen to me, and listen good.
he's probably depressed and/or scared about his future. if he's having a faith crisis, he doesn't really know where to turn. so he's telling you he loves you because he needs you in his life. he likes having the stability of you always being there.
but listen babe. he needs to get his head on straight. the more you talk to him, and let him get by with this behavior, you're encouraging him to act this way. you cannot live with him when he's doing this stuff. cursing, acting out, making fun of God, come on, you can't go along with that.
tell this guy straight out, you need a break from him until he changes.
2006-06-30 20:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by cirque de lune 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 3-4 years I'm surprised your not married. if you're too young, hang in there and save the sex thing for marriage
2006-06-30 20:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by sacsommers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still a high-schooler, if so there is your answer. If not then I would suggest that you try and to understand your own confused feelings for whom ever you direct the feelings towards. Then ask yourself the question about your devotion to that individual.
2006-06-30 20:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by mbrenth36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really loves you and is not only thinking about sex. Sounds weird coming from a guy, but I think he really loves you.
2006-06-30 20:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are asking us, your relationship is in trouble. I do not believe in sex before marriage.But... the problem I see here is that you and your boyfriend do not have a level of communication that you should have...you two should be discussing this...... Why do you not feel comfortable asking him?
2006-06-30 20:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he suffers from a case of descentcy If he don't want to have sex keep him he sound like a nice guy which are hard to come by and maybe he is saving himself for after marriage.
2006-06-30 20:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by illprayforyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have he ask u to marry him love is not sex love more than sex
it caring
2006-06-30 20:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by rnd1938 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋