My BF-soon 2 be ex is cheating on me, but what I dont understand is why doesnt he spend that much time with her? is it CAUSE
he has no car & lives too far from her, or lack of money to take her out? I found a girls phone number & she lives in the same town where he is moving in 4 months. but he hardly sees her when hes short on cash & just stays home on the weekend. but when he has cash he is not home he must be out with her & they work together! if he was really into her wouldn't he take the time to see her more often? he only sees me once a week! & i live down the block from him.
i just dont know why he doesnt see her often if hes so into her? perhaps her schedule is busy?
2006-06-30 12:43:53 · 9 answers · asked by clover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because the mystery makes it twice the fun. If its taboo, its exciting. Get away, and stay away. Most child molesters, spouse or bf/gf abusers are addicted to adrenaline and will do anything for a rush, destroying any and all relationship eventually. Be thankful you found out when you did, and work on finding healthy beautiful relationships. They are out there, and you don't need the added stress of someone else's problems.
2006-06-30 12:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by boxergirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you know he's cheating on you? If so, maybe you could ask him because he's the only one that would really be able to tell you with any certainty.
If I were to make an assumption about it though, as this is anyone's guess at this point, he probably doesn't have a high requirement for spending a lot of time with one person all the time. It seems to me that if he is dividing his time between you and the other gal, his needs are met by just having the variety of girls in his life. He probably just doesn't really want to be in a seriously committed spend all your time together type of relationship.
Men are really not as complex as we like to think that they are. They are pretty simple. They just do what they do and there really aren't any deep, dark hidden mysteries as to why they act the way that they do.
2006-06-30 12:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by hypwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why are you still with him if he is also seeing someone else and is moving to where she lives? He's got the best of both worlds this way, two women who accept him as he is and where he is even if it means you have to share.
What's to say he doesn't have someone else over the two of you as well? That would answer why he doesn't spend time with either of you at times. Perhaps the weekends at home are to recouperate from his fooling around with a different women in every town around. Unless you enjoy your position in this scenario, I'd recommend that you allow him the opportunity to give you his decision. If not, then check out of this threesome and find someone else who is better for you, you deserve more than this.
Good luck
2006-06-30 12:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter how much time he is spending with her? The fact is he is cheating on you. It doesn't matter how often. Dump him and get someone who will treat you better than that.
2006-06-30 12:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....
maybe he's just having sex with her. maybe he and her have some sort of sexual thing going on and nothing more than that. not that it makes it ok that he is cheating. but most men arent gonna spend "time" with someone they are just f'ing. please break up with him sooner than later. i would hate to see him continue to cheat on you and u put up with it.
2006-06-30 12:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by superjacque12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u even care if he sees her often or not? since he's cheting on you, just 4get about him and move on wit ur life. Let him do what he do.
2006-06-30 12:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're making this all up for a joke or you really expect us to know what your boyfriend is up to. I have news for you, we don't know. We don't even know who you are.
2006-06-30 12:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Landon H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worth it
2006-06-30 12:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell are you even asking this question? damn girls are stupid!
2006-06-30 12:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋